January 2007
Resolutions? I used to make them consistently every December 31st. And break them just as consistently once the newness of the new year wore off, and it became too hard to do all those unrealistic things I'd assigned myself.
Nowadays I try to be more simplistic in the expectations I want to achieve. How's this for a mini-list?
1) Write and finish at least three books in 2007.
2) Get published, preferably multi.
3) Be more content with what I have.
4) Appreciate my friends and loved ones even more.
5) Learn patience. (Big sigh)
6) Get THIN--for me!
7) Exercise more.
And that's all I can think of.
For your eyes only . . .
I came across this today and thought you'd get a kick out of it. Don't let your kids see it, or you'll get nothing done but celebrating all month! Enjoy!
January is:
Oatmeal month.
1st: New Year's Day
3rd: J.R.R. Tokien's birthday (you know, the one who wrote the Harry Potter books)
5th: National Bird Day
7th: Old Rock Day (whatever that is!)
9th: National Apricot Day
11th: Milk Day
12th: Work Harder Day (Now that's something to celebrate!)
13th: Rubber Duckie's Birthday
15th: Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day
16th: National Nothing Day (who thinks up these things? How about a
Caroline's-gonna-be-a-big-writer-someday-Day?)
18th: Winnie the Pooh Day
19th: Popcorn Day (now that makes sense!)
23rd: Measure Your Feet Day (Oh, brother!)
24th: National School Nurse Day (the day I celebrate anything to do with doctors, you can come
visit me in the looney bin!)
25th: Opposite Day (What?)
25th: National Kazoo Day
26th: Australia Day
31st: Backward Day (as in shy, or everything's going in reverse?)
So there you have it. If you get bored, you gotta lot of things you can celebrate.
A few more hints to just for you to finish out the year. Next year will pick back up giving you a few for the house, the kids, etc. Remember that life is an adventure. Don't miss it!
1) Reconnect with an old friend. Don't let an address change or the passing of time erase someone from your life. Invest in your future joy.
2) Select a life verse. Get intimate with a portion of Scripture that means something special to you by studying it, memorizing it, meditating on it, and applying what God shows you about it.
3) Unplug for a day. Send a letter instead of an email. Put on a sweater instead of turning up the heat. Light some candles instead of turning on the lights at night. Rediscover some of life's simpler pleasures (and you might look forward to the next time the power goes out.).
4) Create a self-portrait. Consider this: you were created in God's image. Now find a pencil and write down something about yourself, or take some art pencils and draw your self. Take a ball of clay and fashion an image of yourself. Remember God loves you. You're special.
Two Quotes for you to finish out this year's blogging:
The book is closed . . . The year is done, the pages full of tasks begun . . . and may we find before the end, a deep content . . . another friend. --Arch Friend
And . . .
God knows the rhythm of my spirit and knows my heart thoughts. He is as close as breathing. God takes care of all who stay close to Him.
Blessings for a Happy New Year and a big thanks for reading my meandering thoughts!
Friday, December 29, 2006
Thursday, December 28, 2006
Runny Noses and Love.
Sniff. Sniff. Blow. Cough.
No, that's not the bassett hound sniffing out a juicy bone. That's me with my once-a-year cold.
Have you ever tried to kiss with a cold? Yuk! We automatically revert to an elaborate Eskimo style-type of the kiss. Like cheek to cheek thing with a smooch ending up somewhere between the ears and the air. Now this only works if just one of us has the hated cold because the other is scared silly of getting it, so we go to all this trouble of avoiding the germs the other one is carrying. (An elaborate explanation of no known worth, but there you have it.)
What causes me to get this once-a-year thing? Beats me. I blame it on, depending on my mood or the person I'm talking to:
1) the changing weather
2) getting wet from all the rain
3) Lack of rest
So, my final deduction of the whole matter? Runny noses (colds, of course!) and kissing go together like catsup and peanut butter. Like snow in July. Like hot chocolate and pickles. Get the idea?
(And since I'm suffering from one of those things right now, I'm gonna go. You can blame the above nonsense on that! Grin.)
Having trouble falling to sleep, or staying there? Here are four hints in creating sounder sleep; try them, see if they work!
1) Establish a routine. Hard to do, but important. It allows your body to know what to expect.
2) Skip the afternoon caffeine. It can interfere with your body reaching its deepest stage of sleep.
3) Get moving. Uh oh! Exercise is the only proven way to prolong deep sleep! Yeah, you heard that right. Don't work out within three hours of bedtime, otherwise, any time is fine.
4) Keep it cool. Set your bedroom to 65 degrees, the body's best sleeping temperature.
Now for a nice long snooze! Hmmm!
Quote:
Down the dark future, through long generations, the echoing sounds grow fainter and then cease; and like a bell with solemn, sweet vibrations, I hear once more the voice of Christ say, "Peace!" --Longfellow
Blessings!
Sniff. Sniff. Blow. Cough.
No, that's not the bassett hound sniffing out a juicy bone. That's me with my once-a-year cold.
Have you ever tried to kiss with a cold? Yuk! We automatically revert to an elaborate Eskimo style-type of the kiss. Like cheek to cheek thing with a smooch ending up somewhere between the ears and the air. Now this only works if just one of us has the hated cold because the other is scared silly of getting it, so we go to all this trouble of avoiding the germs the other one is carrying. (An elaborate explanation of no known worth, but there you have it.)
What causes me to get this once-a-year thing? Beats me. I blame it on, depending on my mood or the person I'm talking to:
1) the changing weather
2) getting wet from all the rain
3) Lack of rest
So, my final deduction of the whole matter? Runny noses (colds, of course!) and kissing go together like catsup and peanut butter. Like snow in July. Like hot chocolate and pickles. Get the idea?
(And since I'm suffering from one of those things right now, I'm gonna go. You can blame the above nonsense on that! Grin.)
Having trouble falling to sleep, or staying there? Here are four hints in creating sounder sleep; try them, see if they work!
1) Establish a routine. Hard to do, but important. It allows your body to know what to expect.
2) Skip the afternoon caffeine. It can interfere with your body reaching its deepest stage of sleep.
3) Get moving. Uh oh! Exercise is the only proven way to prolong deep sleep! Yeah, you heard that right. Don't work out within three hours of bedtime, otherwise, any time is fine.
4) Keep it cool. Set your bedroom to 65 degrees, the body's best sleeping temperature.
Now for a nice long snooze! Hmmm!
Quote:
Down the dark future, through long generations, the echoing sounds grow fainter and then cease; and like a bell with solemn, sweet vibrations, I hear once more the voice of Christ say, "Peace!" --Longfellow
Blessings!
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Unbroken Friendships
I met an old friend last weekend.
Hubby and I went out together for the evening. And heard someone call my name. When I turned around it was my friend's husband (I'll call him Ben). He took us to their table and there she was (Connie, I'll call her). We hugged and laughed, caught up on all our important news: kids, careers, life in general.
I spoke to their table partners: "She used to be one of my best friends, but I don't see her enough any more to say that." And that's true. Why do some friends disappear out of our life, never to see them any more? Others, occasionally, like Connie and Ben, we run across. Why don't we get together more often?
Is life that important that we must lose contact with some people, but not others? (Confession time: some people--it'd be a blessing to lose contact with them. Now don't anyone look shocked, I don't mean you!)
Do our old friends think we don't love them anymore? Are they caught up with new phases of life that unwittingly leads them away? Marriage? New careers? Moving?
Probably all of the above. I look back on some used-to-be friends and wish I still could see them. I remember school friends. Just recently at a special service, four--including myself--old classmates were there. I wished I'd thought to take our picture together. When will that happen again?
Sure, I'm busy. I have my life, my love-interests/hobbies, my family and new friends. But I have time for the old ones, too. At least, I think I do. I hope so.
Connie and Ben--if you're reading this--I mean you guys! Love you!
If you're interested in your health and determined to spend more time this new year in losing weight (or keeping it off), here are some healthful hints that might do the trick:
1) Keep healthy snacks available wherever you are: in the car, office, or briefcase. At home typing, working, traveling, wherever. Don't be caught without them! This is important, because when that urge comes to nibble, if you can reach for something healthy, it will make a difference.
Choose food snacks that are palatable to your taste: raisins, fresh fruit, low-fat cheese, yogurt, etc. Choose wisely!
2) Timing is important to support blood sugars and not to overload your system at any one time which makes it more difficult for your body to metabolize the nutrients properly. Eat small portions often. When fat is stored, more will be burned.
3) Eat water-soluble fibers (oatmeal, brown rice, dried beans and peanuts).
4) Read food labels and choose items with lower saturated fats. It's as simple as that!
5) Limit refined carbohydrates and concentrated sweets. Yeah, I know, we all like them. But just cut back. Reward yourself with them now and then, instead of every day. Your body will feel the difference and eventually like it! Remember: this form of sugar gets into the bloodstream quickly and requires an increased production of triglycerides (the bad word!) to transport it through your body! Bad, bad, bad!
6) Vary your food choices, stay out of ruts that lead to boredom and bingeing!
7) Make a grocery list and plan your meals. Buy only what's on your list.
And last, but certainly, not least: drum roll - - - - - - - - - -
8) Aerobic exercise (ideally an hour, but do what you can. Anything is better than nothing) every other day will help stabilize blood sugars by stimulating the metabolism and allowing sugars to pass through the cell walls more easily and be burned for energy.
Do these eight simple things, stick with it, and in a few months, you'll look different, feel different, and probably love it!
Quote:
Many merry Christmases, many happy New Years. Unbroken friendships, great accumlations of cheerful recollections and affections on earth, and heaven for us all. --Charles Dickens
Blessings.
I met an old friend last weekend.
Hubby and I went out together for the evening. And heard someone call my name. When I turned around it was my friend's husband (I'll call him Ben). He took us to their table and there she was (Connie, I'll call her). We hugged and laughed, caught up on all our important news: kids, careers, life in general.
I spoke to their table partners: "She used to be one of my best friends, but I don't see her enough any more to say that." And that's true. Why do some friends disappear out of our life, never to see them any more? Others, occasionally, like Connie and Ben, we run across. Why don't we get together more often?
Is life that important that we must lose contact with some people, but not others? (Confession time: some people--it'd be a blessing to lose contact with them. Now don't anyone look shocked, I don't mean you!)
Do our old friends think we don't love them anymore? Are they caught up with new phases of life that unwittingly leads them away? Marriage? New careers? Moving?
Probably all of the above. I look back on some used-to-be friends and wish I still could see them. I remember school friends. Just recently at a special service, four--including myself--old classmates were there. I wished I'd thought to take our picture together. When will that happen again?
Sure, I'm busy. I have my life, my love-interests/hobbies, my family and new friends. But I have time for the old ones, too. At least, I think I do. I hope so.
Connie and Ben--if you're reading this--I mean you guys! Love you!
If you're interested in your health and determined to spend more time this new year in losing weight (or keeping it off), here are some healthful hints that might do the trick:
1) Keep healthy snacks available wherever you are: in the car, office, or briefcase. At home typing, working, traveling, wherever. Don't be caught without them! This is important, because when that urge comes to nibble, if you can reach for something healthy, it will make a difference.
Choose food snacks that are palatable to your taste: raisins, fresh fruit, low-fat cheese, yogurt, etc. Choose wisely!
2) Timing is important to support blood sugars and not to overload your system at any one time which makes it more difficult for your body to metabolize the nutrients properly. Eat small portions often. When fat is stored, more will be burned.
3) Eat water-soluble fibers (oatmeal, brown rice, dried beans and peanuts).
4) Read food labels and choose items with lower saturated fats. It's as simple as that!
5) Limit refined carbohydrates and concentrated sweets. Yeah, I know, we all like them. But just cut back. Reward yourself with them now and then, instead of every day. Your body will feel the difference and eventually like it! Remember: this form of sugar gets into the bloodstream quickly and requires an increased production of triglycerides (the bad word!) to transport it through your body! Bad, bad, bad!
6) Vary your food choices, stay out of ruts that lead to boredom and bingeing!
7) Make a grocery list and plan your meals. Buy only what's on your list.
And last, but certainly, not least: drum roll - - - - - - - - - -
8) Aerobic exercise (ideally an hour, but do what you can. Anything is better than nothing) every other day will help stabilize blood sugars by stimulating the metabolism and allowing sugars to pass through the cell walls more easily and be burned for energy.
Do these eight simple things, stick with it, and in a few months, you'll look different, feel different, and probably love it!
Quote:
Many merry Christmases, many happy New Years. Unbroken friendships, great accumlations of cheerful recollections and affections on earth, and heaven for us all. --Charles Dickens
Blessings.
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
Secret and Strange Stuff
Is anyone else fascinated with secrets? Strange things? Hard to comprehend-things?
I remember as a child I wanted so badly to find a tiny Tom Thumb. Can anyone remember that story (no comment, brudder! You're almost as old as me!). I loved it and thought finding a little fellow like that would be wonderful! And fairies. Did anyone believe in them?
Okay, okay. I know I'm fanciful. Hubby has more than once told me to get my head out of a story-book world. (Drab real life!) Other countries believe in tiny people. Scotland, Germany, Ireland, etc. And who's to say God didn't make something else besides what we know as normal human beings. I mean, they say (the proverbial "they say") there are still creatures that we don't know about under water and in some countries. So. . .couldn't there be?
If you read last Friday's post, you know already that stars fascinate me. Huge and glittery and wonderously far away creations.
I like mysteries (not that I'm that good at solving them, although I should be since I like to write them.) in books, like to figure out who did what. Sometimes when hubby and I listen to a good mystery on tape, we go back and forth trying to figure it out. Fun.
I like hidey holes. Meaning, places that are secret and beautiful. Hidden garden spots, forest sun-dappled areas, and my deck with it's open top with the trees hanging over. I use to love sitting in a tree and watching the branches sway. Still do, for that matter--watching the swaying treetops, not the climbing part. Grin.
Certain puzzles (not the undefeatable kind--I'm not that patient!), keeping secrets with hubby, planning a pleasant surprise for someone special.
I like parts of history because it's strange and different from what we know. I like thinking about what it would have been like. In sixth grade teacher assigned us the task of writing a diary for one week as if we lived in the caveman's day. I loved that. That is where I date my first desire for writing.
I don't like wearing an outfit when someone else has the same one. (except I remember in high school, the rage was a sweatshirt with your name lettered across the front. I finally got one--just about the time they started going out of style! Never let Mom forget it! Pout!) So that is strange, isn't it?
And for years I plucked daisy petals to see if the current love was in love with me. (Which fortunately--or unfortunately, depending on what age you're coming from!--seldom proved anything.) I wished fervently every night on the first star in the dark sky, refused to allow my eyes to wander in case there would be more out and ruin my wish.
Foolish stuff. Yep! But then, I'm kinda strange.
Since I'm talking about strange things today, here's a strange hint for you. Laugh!
When you visit restrooms (eating establishments, hotel rooms, etc.) how do you know for sure that the seemingly ordinary mirror hanging on the wall is a real mirror?
Here's how: Place the tip of your fingernail against the reflective surface and if there is a gap between your fingernail and the image of the nail, then it is a genuine mirror. IF your fingernail touches the image of your nail, then beware! You know for sure it's a two-way mirror.
Now you can start worrying. Don't go phobic on me--touching mirrors everywhere you go!
Quote:
Still round the corner there may wait, a new road, or a secret gate. --J.R.R. Tolkien
I wish for you a strange blessing today. Something out-of-the-ordinary and something very special!
Friday, December 22, 2006
The Fascinating Stars
What do they mean?
I don't know. But here's some thoughts:
A star on the door in the backstage area of a theater means an important player prepares for the stage in that room. They're allowed privacy with that room. They don't have to reveal nervousness or bad habits to the public when in that room. It's a desirable isolation that provides quiet and peace to that person.
How does that speak to me? Well, I think I need a star on my heart's door to remind me to take the time, or extra, to get away from every earthy thing and spend time with my creator. Quiet, peaceful time. Time that renews my spirit.
God sent a special star (the Bible says so!) to the Wise Men of the East when they sought the baby Jesus to worship Him. It was a mystical wonder, both in those early days, and today. When we read or listen to the beautiful Nativity story the star is a wondrous delight, something so magical--and yet God-given--that we can relate to it. God wanted the Wise Men to know where this Christ-child was. He did all He could to help them. He wants us to know about this same Jesus today so He had the story recorded for history in his holy Book.
Sceptics and scientists try to figure out where and how the star came to be. Logical-sounding explanations are created and recorded. But it doesn't matter. To me. We know, those of us who believe, that the Star was there. God sent it for mankind. For the Wise Men Kings and for me.
I didn't see that long-ago star. I wish I had. But I see the stars today, and because he created them just the same as He created that beautiful guiding star, I can worship the God of heaven and of my heart. I believe in yesterday's Star. And I believe in Jesus the Star of my heart.
Thank you, God, for the fascinating, beautiful stars.
Thank you for your long ago gift to us-Jesus, the best star of all--that is so up-to-date today.
Merry Christmas. Talk to you next week!
This hint is for YOU. You've been busy doing for others, buying, baking, and cleaning. Now that Christmas is almost here, and soon over, take some time afterwards to relax! If you're into crafts and do-it-yourself items, this will prove fun and interesting. And enjoyable!
Mix:
* Plain rock salt--the bigger the better. Looks beautiful and cleanses the skin more effectively.
* Add herbs (your choice)--lavender, lemongrass, chamomile (or dried flowers: roses, daisies, etc.). The more you use the more fragrant the mixture will be.
* Optional--your favorite perfume or essential oils. This will add even more depth when released in hot water.
Place all in a pretty jar or bottle.
Quote:
God grant you the light in Christmas, which is faith; the warmth of Christmas, which is love . . .the all of Christmas, which is Christ. --Wilda English
"For unto us is born, to us a son is given, and the government shall be on His shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."
Blessings on you and may the peace of God reign in your hearts!
What do they mean?
I don't know. But here's some thoughts:
A star on the door in the backstage area of a theater means an important player prepares for the stage in that room. They're allowed privacy with that room. They don't have to reveal nervousness or bad habits to the public when in that room. It's a desirable isolation that provides quiet and peace to that person.
How does that speak to me? Well, I think I need a star on my heart's door to remind me to take the time, or extra, to get away from every earthy thing and spend time with my creator. Quiet, peaceful time. Time that renews my spirit.
God sent a special star (the Bible says so!) to the Wise Men of the East when they sought the baby Jesus to worship Him. It was a mystical wonder, both in those early days, and today. When we read or listen to the beautiful Nativity story the star is a wondrous delight, something so magical--and yet God-given--that we can relate to it. God wanted the Wise Men to know where this Christ-child was. He did all He could to help them. He wants us to know about this same Jesus today so He had the story recorded for history in his holy Book.
Sceptics and scientists try to figure out where and how the star came to be. Logical-sounding explanations are created and recorded. But it doesn't matter. To me. We know, those of us who believe, that the Star was there. God sent it for mankind. For the Wise Men Kings and for me.
I didn't see that long-ago star. I wish I had. But I see the stars today, and because he created them just the same as He created that beautiful guiding star, I can worship the God of heaven and of my heart. I believe in yesterday's Star. And I believe in Jesus the Star of my heart.
Thank you, God, for the fascinating, beautiful stars.
Thank you for your long ago gift to us-Jesus, the best star of all--that is so up-to-date today.
Merry Christmas. Talk to you next week!
This hint is for YOU. You've been busy doing for others, buying, baking, and cleaning. Now that Christmas is almost here, and soon over, take some time afterwards to relax! If you're into crafts and do-it-yourself items, this will prove fun and interesting. And enjoyable!
Mix:
* Plain rock salt--the bigger the better. Looks beautiful and cleanses the skin more effectively.
* Add herbs (your choice)--lavender, lemongrass, chamomile (or dried flowers: roses, daisies, etc.). The more you use the more fragrant the mixture will be.
* Optional--your favorite perfume or essential oils. This will add even more depth when released in hot water.
Place all in a pretty jar or bottle.
Quote:
God grant you the light in Christmas, which is faith; the warmth of Christmas, which is love . . .the all of Christmas, which is Christ. --Wilda English
"For unto us is born, to us a son is given, and the government shall be on His shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Almighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."
Blessings on you and may the peace of God reign in your hearts!
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Open Mouth, Insert Foot
What an idiot I am. I mean it. Now all you dear friends who are raising up in arms to come to my defense, stop right there. (grin) No one else called me that (at least, not recently and not to my face). I'm name-calling myself!
Here's what happened yesterday. Pastor/boss stopped in the office to let me know he was going out to lunch with a beautiful lady. Idiot that I am--the one who thinks she's so-o-o very funny--immediately piped up with, "I'm gonna tell your wife." Said wife standing there. They both laughed. I laughed. How clever!
But here's the meat of the story: Late last night, I thought, "What if she thought that I thought (meant) she wasn't beautiful." You know how introverts think, right? Well, if you don't, let me tell you, if anyone can ever come up with a murder plot (for a novel, of course!), it's a writer-- introvert. They can think of the worst scenarios in the world, and then some, or least some of them can.
So, of course, when I mentioned it this morning--preparatory to an apology, everything was fine. No offense was taken where none was meant, etc., etc.
Worry for nothing, if you're asking me.
Then . . . last night at program practice, I jumped right into the frey bemoaning the fact that I hated waiting around. Meaning, of course, that personally. Not to slander anyone else who is so slow they're occasionally taken for a turtle (just kidding!), but that I'm the type to always want to be busy, doing something. Waiting is hard for and on me. That's what I meant.
That's not what the husband of the said-turtle-slow-person thought I meant. Of course, he didn't actually lambast me. But he let me know he'd heard me and I'm sure he thought I meant his wife. Oh, dear. Why can't I ever learn to keep my trap shut?
More backpeddling. More apologies. Will I ever learn?
I don't know. But one thing I know for sure, I don't want any bad feelings now (or any time) because of something I've unwittingly said or done floating around--especially during this joyous season. I don't want to make anyone unhappy.
You think tape might work?
Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate. (Hint for a contest! Gonna be a part?)
Christmas is almost here. Most of us have what gifts we're buying, already bought. Are you looking ahead to the days after Christmas? Well, here are a few suggestions that are something to think about.
1) Christmas Decor for next year. Yeah, yeah, I know, you don't even want to think about next Christmas. But the wise shopper (woman!) will. This is the time to buy those expensive Christmas decorations that may be marked down as much as 75% or more. What a bargain! Keep your eyes open for some good deals and go with an open mind.
2) Gift baskets. Most stores mark these down to less than half what they were before Christmas. Nice for an after-Christmas-gift for yourself, the kids, or even take them apart and give them as individual gifts or rearrange them so they won't be so Christmasy for an early-year birthday present. Smart shopping!
3) And remember, that stores run sales on almost everything after Christmas. Make a list, keep your eyes open, and go early to beat the crowds.
Quote:
The most vivid memories of Christmases past are usually not of gifts given or received, but of the spirit of love, the special warmth of Christmas worship, the cherished little habits of the home, the results of others acting in the spirit of Christ. --Lois Rand
Blessings
What an idiot I am. I mean it. Now all you dear friends who are raising up in arms to come to my defense, stop right there. (grin) No one else called me that (at least, not recently and not to my face). I'm name-calling myself!
Here's what happened yesterday. Pastor/boss stopped in the office to let me know he was going out to lunch with a beautiful lady. Idiot that I am--the one who thinks she's so-o-o very funny--immediately piped up with, "I'm gonna tell your wife." Said wife standing there. They both laughed. I laughed. How clever!
But here's the meat of the story: Late last night, I thought, "What if she thought that I thought (meant) she wasn't beautiful." You know how introverts think, right? Well, if you don't, let me tell you, if anyone can ever come up with a murder plot (for a novel, of course!), it's a writer-- introvert. They can think of the worst scenarios in the world, and then some, or least some of them can.
So, of course, when I mentioned it this morning--preparatory to an apology, everything was fine. No offense was taken where none was meant, etc., etc.
Worry for nothing, if you're asking me.
Then . . . last night at program practice, I jumped right into the frey bemoaning the fact that I hated waiting around. Meaning, of course, that personally. Not to slander anyone else who is so slow they're occasionally taken for a turtle (just kidding!), but that I'm the type to always want to be busy, doing something. Waiting is hard for and on me. That's what I meant.
That's not what the husband of the said-turtle-slow-person thought I meant. Of course, he didn't actually lambast me. But he let me know he'd heard me and I'm sure he thought I meant his wife. Oh, dear. Why can't I ever learn to keep my trap shut?
More backpeddling. More apologies. Will I ever learn?
I don't know. But one thing I know for sure, I don't want any bad feelings now (or any time) because of something I've unwittingly said or done floating around--especially during this joyous season. I don't want to make anyone unhappy.
You think tape might work?
Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate. (Hint for a contest! Gonna be a part?)
Christmas is almost here. Most of us have what gifts we're buying, already bought. Are you looking ahead to the days after Christmas? Well, here are a few suggestions that are something to think about.
1) Christmas Decor for next year. Yeah, yeah, I know, you don't even want to think about next Christmas. But the wise shopper (woman!) will. This is the time to buy those expensive Christmas decorations that may be marked down as much as 75% or more. What a bargain! Keep your eyes open for some good deals and go with an open mind.
2) Gift baskets. Most stores mark these down to less than half what they were before Christmas. Nice for an after-Christmas-gift for yourself, the kids, or even take them apart and give them as individual gifts or rearrange them so they won't be so Christmasy for an early-year birthday present. Smart shopping!
3) And remember, that stores run sales on almost everything after Christmas. Make a list, keep your eyes open, and go early to beat the crowds.
Quote:
The most vivid memories of Christmases past are usually not of gifts given or received, but of the spirit of love, the special warmth of Christmas worship, the cherished little habits of the home, the results of others acting in the spirit of Christ. --Lois Rand
Blessings
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
SNOWFLAKE Memories:
1) A special email from a friend in West Virginia who reads my blog and wished me a Merry Christmas.
2) A treat last week of several flavors of homemade biscotti from a local friend.
3) Christmas lunch with pastor/boss and his wife, friends, and hubby last week. Delicious and fun!
4) A fruit basket and candy today. Love both!
5) A compliment recently from a brother--word treasures!
6) Love shining in my hubby's eyes.
7) The way Taffy runs to me when she thinks she has to go into her cage!
8) Buying for others
9) The cards and flowers my oldest son buys for me throughout the year
10) kisses and hugs from other son
Have you got some snowflake memories? Feathery light, beautiful and unlike the real snowflakes--lasting?
Here are a couple suggestions for making Christmas gift unwrapping fun for kids. See what you think:
1) A present hunt. Hide the presents throughout the house (or outside too if you live in a warmer climate) and have your children hunt for the presents. If you have more than one child, color-code them so that children will know to let alone those that are not theirs specifically.
If you want to get more specific in their hunting, do a treasure hunt. Give clues--on papers, etc., that lead them eventually to their presents. Lots of fun and excitement!
2) How about a follow-the-string hunt? Start at the tree and have a separate string for each child that leads to his/her present. Can be quite hilarious (possibly nerve-wracking) but oh, so fun!
Sit back and watch your children's delighted faces!
Quote:
For somehow, not only at Christmas, but all the long year through, the joy that you give to others is the joy that comes back to you. --John Greenleaf wittier
Blessings
1) A special email from a friend in West Virginia who reads my blog and wished me a Merry Christmas.
2) A treat last week of several flavors of homemade biscotti from a local friend.
3) Christmas lunch with pastor/boss and his wife, friends, and hubby last week. Delicious and fun!
4) A fruit basket and candy today. Love both!
5) A compliment recently from a brother--word treasures!
6) Love shining in my hubby's eyes.
7) The way Taffy runs to me when she thinks she has to go into her cage!
8) Buying for others
9) The cards and flowers my oldest son buys for me throughout the year
10) kisses and hugs from other son
Have you got some snowflake memories? Feathery light, beautiful and unlike the real snowflakes--lasting?
Although we have our Yule traditions, Holiday customs from other countries can make a welcome addition. Whether you're dreaming of an exotic Christmas or just looking for new ideas, you may find what you need in this quick world tour.
- In Argentina, each household keeps a cup filled with touron (almond paste with nuts or candied fruit), chocolates, dried and candied fruit in the entrance hall throughout the holidays and offers all visitors a treat. Saude! Viva!
- In Austria, people eat “crampus” — little gingerbread imps — to keep the devil away. Advent is observed in Austria with Advent chimes with four small candle-bearing angels. When the candles are lit, their heat makes the angels go round in circles ringing the chimes.
- In Spain, each of the twelve strokes of midnight is marked by swallowing a grape for good luck in the New Year. Serve sugar-frosted grapes for eye appeal as well as fresh taste appeal.
- In Japan, the New Year, Shogatsu, involves major housecleaning called soot-sweeping or Susaharai with a red and white beribboned broom, changing the shoji (sliding panels), scrubbing the house inside and out. When the house is spotless, small potted pines with bamboo are put on both sides of the front entrance. At midnight the temple is struck 108 times for the 108 sins that may have been committed. People give popcorn-topped rushes that look like flowering peach tree branches.
- In England, the United States and Quebec, because we've adopted many customs from both, Christmas is done up in red and green, with stockings hung by the chimney and filled with candies, fruit, nuts, mandarins and trinkets and the family gathered round a table of with turkey with all the trimmings. Christmas pudding is identified with England. But eggnog wins converts with every new person that tastes it... spreading Christmas cheer!
Here are a couple suggestions for making Christmas gift unwrapping fun for kids. See what you think:
1) A present hunt. Hide the presents throughout the house (or outside too if you live in a warmer climate) and have your children hunt for the presents. If you have more than one child, color-code them so that children will know to let alone those that are not theirs specifically.
If you want to get more specific in their hunting, do a treasure hunt. Give clues--on papers, etc., that lead them eventually to their presents. Lots of fun and excitement!
2) How about a follow-the-string hunt? Start at the tree and have a separate string for each child that leads to his/her present. Can be quite hilarious (possibly nerve-wracking) but oh, so fun!
Sit back and watch your children's delighted faces!
Quote:
For somehow, not only at Christmas, but all the long year through, the joy that you give to others is the joy that comes back to you. --John Greenleaf wittier
Blessings
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
What Shall I give for Christmas?
A listening ear to the friend with a heartache.
A thank you to the tired salesperson who serves you.
Laughter to brighten a less-fortunate's life.
A kiss and a hug for a handicapped child.
Time to read to the sightless.
An act of kindness to the shut-in.
A cheery greeting to one who is ill.
A smile to the elderly person who is struggling to walk.
A written message to a lonely one.
How simple our Christmas shopping can be this year -
And every year - when we give gifts of the heart.
What shall I give?
Extra love to a rebellious child
A foot rub to a wonderful hubby
A smile for someone hurting
A hug to my sweet mother
A spoken word to those who are hard for me to like
A bit of time to that young person wanting my help
A pat on the head to an affectionate pet
A thank you to God for all His blessings upon me.
May God give me the wisdom and strength to know and enjoy what is real and what is the tinsel of unimportant.
Christmas hints:
Quote:
Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call His name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us. --Matthew 1:23 kjv
Blessings
A listening ear to the friend with a heartache.
A thank you to the tired salesperson who serves you.
Laughter to brighten a less-fortunate's life.
A kiss and a hug for a handicapped child.
Time to read to the sightless.
An act of kindness to the shut-in.
A cheery greeting to one who is ill.
A smile to the elderly person who is struggling to walk.
A written message to a lonely one.
How simple our Christmas shopping can be this year -
And every year - when we give gifts of the heart.
What shall I give?
Extra love to a rebellious child
A foot rub to a wonderful hubby
A smile for someone hurting
A hug to my sweet mother
A spoken word to those who are hard for me to like
A bit of time to that young person wanting my help
A pat on the head to an affectionate pet
A thank you to God for all His blessings upon me.
May God give me the wisdom and strength to know and enjoy what is real and what is the tinsel of unimportant.
Christmas hints:
1. Look around in each room for items the color red or green. See those gift bottles of red peppers? Grouped together with some green and/or red ribbon or garland and even a strand of lights or some candles, they will give warmth to a table or a mantle.
2. Have a marble collection? Take out all the red and green ones and put in a clear bottle, vase, or jar. A strand of lights nearby would be a pretty enhancement and adds a sparkling glow.
3. Pretty bottles filled with punch, etc., or other items, wrapped with festive ribbons could be used as decor and you have an instant gift for friends or family that drops by.
4. A frugal decoration is to use synthetic strands of Christmas ivy bought at last years after-Christmas sale. Remove the red holley berries and use the garland as a year round mantle decoration with lights behind it and perhaps a snow globe collection in front. Adding the red berries will give back it's Christmas charm.
5. Pillows or throws will add to your personalized Christmas decorating scheme.
6. A fireplace or hearth is made festive by adding candles and greenery. Putting the candles on a mirrored base will create a peaceful and pretty atmosphere.
Quote:
Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call His name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us. --Matthew 1:23 kjv
Blessings
Friday, December 15, 2006
Recipe for Happiness
Is happiness having? Is it getting what we want? Will I be happier when I get a book published? When I get a new desktop computer (that I need desperately)? Is it getting a digital camera instead of pretending I like having the throw-aways?
My hubby--bless his generous heart gives me many things I desire. He strives to please me and my wants. But one thing he says that makes me think (at least when I'm not in the wanting stage! Grin) is, "There are many people who'd like to have what we have."
One of my brothers (and I won't say which one, because they might be reading this about now) used to say--when urged to eat something he didn't want, that children in China would love to have what he had--"send it to them."
That was his childish response to having to do--eat--what he didn't want to do.
But how many adults do the same thing? How many times do we sigh, wish, and complain about what we don't have, what we wish we had, about not enough money. . . more, more, more. Why can't we be satisfied with what we have?
Going back to me--true, I do enjoy writing, I savor the positive feedback on my writing projects. Then why do I want more, as if I can't be satisfied with the gift that God has given me? Hubby says there's more than one way to reach my goal, meaning keep working at it, but plan alternative actions if necessary, to see my work in print.
Am I really wanting to reach others with my work? To encourage others to reach out to God? Am I wanting that writing ache inside of me eased with seeing the fruition of my hard work? Can I truly say I want God's glory for what I'm doing? I hope so. I pray for that. I think I strive for that.
Some reminders and things to note:
DON'T you all forget about the influencing contest! You'll win some nice chocolates (okay, if you're one of those strange creatures who doesn't like chocolates, let me know and I'll send you something else!) and get to encourage five other people to become one of my readers. Hey, that's not too hard on the old brain, now is it?
And sorry, about the double (did it show up double for you guys?) of yesterday's posting about the interview. I had trouble getting the format to go right and finally gave up on it. When I checked this morning there were two of the same. The second one was formatted half-way right!
Thanks to all you great readers!
Double Quotes today to ponder over:
May no gift be too small to give, nor too simple to receive, which is wrapped in thoughtfulness and tied with love. -- L. O. Baird
Better than being the head of the family is being the heart of it - George Bergman
Blessings
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| Take two heaping cups of patience |
Is happiness having? Is it getting what we want? Will I be happier when I get a book published? When I get a new desktop computer (that I need desperately)? Is it getting a digital camera instead of pretending I like having the throw-aways?
My hubby--bless his generous heart gives me many things I desire. He strives to please me and my wants. But one thing he says that makes me think (at least when I'm not in the wanting stage! Grin) is, "There are many people who'd like to have what we have."
One of my brothers (and I won't say which one, because they might be reading this about now) used to say--when urged to eat something he didn't want, that children in China would love to have what he had--"send it to them."
That was his childish response to having to do--eat--what he didn't want to do.
But how many adults do the same thing? How many times do we sigh, wish, and complain about what we don't have, what we wish we had, about not enough money. . . more, more, more. Why can't we be satisfied with what we have?
Going back to me--true, I do enjoy writing, I savor the positive feedback on my writing projects. Then why do I want more, as if I can't be satisfied with the gift that God has given me? Hubby says there's more than one way to reach my goal, meaning keep working at it, but plan alternative actions if necessary, to see my work in print.
Am I really wanting to reach others with my work? To encourage others to reach out to God? Am I wanting that writing ache inside of me eased with seeing the fruition of my hard work? Can I truly say I want God's glory for what I'm doing? I hope so. I pray for that. I think I strive for that.
Some reminders and things to note:
DON'T you all forget about the influencing contest! You'll win some nice chocolates (okay, if you're one of those strange creatures who doesn't like chocolates, let me know and I'll send you something else!) and get to encourage five other people to become one of my readers. Hey, that's not too hard on the old brain, now is it?
And sorry, about the double (did it show up double for you guys?) of yesterday's posting about the interview. I had trouble getting the format to go right and finally gave up on it. When I checked this morning there were two of the same. The second one was formatted half-way right!
Thanks to all you great readers!
Double Quotes today to ponder over:
May no gift be too small to give, nor too simple to receive, which is wrapped in thoughtfulness and tied with love. -- L. O. Baird
Better than being the head of the family is being the heart of it - George Bergman
Blessings
Thursday, December 14, 2006
INTERVIEW of writer Peg Phifer
OKAY! Here it is: my first interview! I'm so proud. Peg is one of my critique partners & keeps me toeing the line on my writing. I really appreciate her comments today (and on my work! Grin).
Hi, Peg. Thanks for your willingness to share a little bit of your life as a writer with my blog readers. You’re from
1. Peg, how long have you been writing? What drew you into it? How many manuscripts (novels) have you finished?
Peg: I guess I've been writing, after a fashion, ever since I could hold a pencil. I had severe childhood asthma and in those days the only way it was treated was bed rest. So, after doing the school work sent home to me during those spells, I wrote. Silly, fanciful stuff that no one ever saw. When my family grew up and started leaving home, I got the urge to write seriously, but it never seemed to get anywhere, and I regret to confess that I don't yet have a completed manuscript--in any form.
2. What genre is of the most interest to you? Why?
Peg: In my "mature" years, I've worked on mostly contemporary inspirational romance, I guess what they call Sweet Romance. But it wasn't very satisfying, and I found it difficult to write within the limited word count they require. So, I set them aside and moved to contemporary romantic suspense. More words, more pages, and more fun.
3. Tell us a little bit about what happened when an editor requested a full manuscript. What does that mean? This isn't an every day occurrence for a new writer, is it?
Peg: I took my current contemporary romantic suspense to a conference this year where I'd scheduled a paid critique of the first chapter and three-page synopsis, followed by a fifteen minute one-on-one with an editor from the publishing house I'd hoped would be interested. The critique was just the boost I needed to face the editor. But I bobbled the pitch, got all nervous and tongue-tied. Finally i handed her the one-sheet I'd prepared and then as she read my tongue loosened up a bit as she asked a few questions.
Turns out that publishing house was not accepting unfinished manuscripts from unpublished authors. (Not what I'd understood from what I'd read about them earlier this year.)
Anyway, she asked if she could keep the one-sheet. Good sign. I asked if I could send her a proposal. She said no. Bad sign. But then she handed me her business care, asked for mine and said, "Send me the full manuscript when you get it finished." Definitely a good sign!
What does it mean? Ha. It means I need to write and get that puppy finished. To answer your other question: no, this is not an ordinary thing for a new, unpublished writer.
4. What is the NaNo challenge and what does it mean? How hard is it? What was your goal? Give us some idea of what the challenge is.
Peg: The National Novel Writing Month (NoNoWriMo) happens every November, something some enterprising folks dreamed up seven years ago. The basic idea is to sign up for the challenge, then you're supposed to write 50,000 words between November 1 and November 30. 50,000 words equates to a small mass-market novel such as Barbour's Heartsong Presents or Steeple Hill's Love Inspired.
That's serious writing. It's very hard and it takes a whole lot of discipline and determination. I'd tried it two years in a row before and failed. This year I was determined to go through with it. What makes it even more challenging is that you're supposed to start completely cold-nothing written. Outlines, notes, and research leading up to it is fine. I began with an idea for a historical romantic suspense I'd dreamed up years ago but never took it anywhere. I'd written maybe two-three pages, but that's all. I had done some research over time, so I was a little prepared. And, it's set in a part of the country where I used to live.
But, I actually made my word count and "won" the challenge. Stress-factor aside, it was a lot of fun, and I learned so much about myself during the process. First and foremost, I think I really like writing historical fiction!
5. Have you been rejected by a publishing house? How does that make you feel?
Peg: No, I have no formal rejections, fiction-wise. Up until the last year or so, I've never had the temerity or belief in my writing to submit anything. That changed this year, so I expect to hear I've been rejected soon.
6. Do you set daily goals in the amount of writing you do? So many pages?
Words? How does a writer decide what's good for her?
Peg: That's a good question. Unfortunately, I'm not the one to give you a good answer. At the moment, I am serving as Treasurer on the Operating Board of ACFW and that consumes great chunks of time. I try to make myself sit down and write every day, but it seldom happens that way. I am dreadful at time-management and self-discipline. I'm easily distracted and am a devotee of procrastination. Obviously, something has to change here. Right?
7. Are you a seat-of-the-pants writer or an outliner? Please tell the
readers what this means.
Peg: I am most definitely a SOTP writer. I'm not sure I can explain the antithesis (grin). My understanding of those other writer-types is that they map out their novel even before they begin to write. That's a very brief and probably incorrect over-simplification.
As SOTP, my novels are all character driven. They're constantly surprising me, and that's actually fun. I "plot" as I go. Sometimes I'll stop and open a new document and enter my thoughts willy-nilly. Other times, I'll enter those thoughts in bold face and another color smack in the middle of the document, or when I need to research something, I make a note of it. Later, when the pace of my writing has slowed, I'll go back through those "notes to self" and fill in the blanks. It does help keep the thoughts focused on the flow of the story. If I have to stop to dig for information, I will almost always lose my train of thought. (That's what I did with NaNo and it helped with my word count.)
8. How will you react when your first book is published? What will be your
emotional feeling?
Peg: Oh, my. I hope I survive it! After defibrillation, my first thought will probably be, "Oh, how I wish Mom and Dad could hold this book in their hands."
9. How important to you are critiquing groups, conferences, etc.? Why? Do
they advance your writing? How?
Peg: I find them invaluable. Crit groups are great. If you can find one locally so you have face-to-face give and take, that's wonderful. I don't. But there are many online ways to hook up with a group of like-minded writers and critique each other's work. The key, I think, in any group like that, is to make up your mind exactly how you want to be critiqued. I prefer the unvarnished variety--tough, honest, and pulling-no-punches type. It's the only critiuqe that helps me. Of course, all comments from someone else are subjective. If you get the same thought from more than one of the others looking at your manuscript, then perhaps there's merit in what they say. Otherwise, think it through and decide for yourself.
Conferences, too, are of great importance. Not just for the opportunity to meet with an editor or agent, but also for the sheer joy of networking and fellowshipping with other writers. Whether they advance a writing career depends on why you go and what you take away. I'm sure that even if an appointment with an editor is a disappointment, or the agent you wanted didn't want you, underneath there is a positive feeling and you'll go home encouraged and eager to tackle the next step.
10. What's your least favorite thing about writing? Your most favorite thing?
Explain.
Peg: Least favorite? Probably trying to write a rough draft without my internal editor constantly perched on my shoulder and nudging me: "Uh, oh, that's not right, better fix it." "That's not spelled right." or "You just used 'was' four times in that sentence." (well, maybe that last one is allowed!). I find it almost impossible to turn her off.
Mostly, though, I think I like everything about writing. But then, keep in mind that I haven't been contracted yet, so I have little inkling of what comes next. I suspect marketing will become something I'll dislike intensely.
Thanks again, Peg. I’m sure my readers will enjoy reading what you’ve given us. Folks, I’ve read some of Peg’s work, and she is good. Keep watching, because I predict she’ll soon be published! Best to you, Peg!
Peggy Phifer is a retired executive secretary who now serves on the board of
Peg also loves to do handcrafts of nearly every sort and her home shows off some of her work, though most end up as gifts to friends and family. She is a member of
Here are some pointers on how to keep your poinsettias around as long as possible.
- Place the plant in bright light, but not direct sun
- keep soil slightly moist, not waterlogged
- feed with a liquid houseplant fertilizer read label for directions on how often to feed.
- When the flowers fade, keep the leaves healthy by watering and feed as you would during the flowering season.
- The flowerless plant still needs bright light
- prune back during the growing season to control its size and shape so it won't get thin and ungainly.
- To stimulate flowering for next year, start in October to keep the plant in total darkness from 5 p.m. to 7 a.m. every day for four weeks
- maintain a night temperature of 60 to 67 degrees F.
- mist leaves daily if atmosphere is too dry
- when you plant begins to flower place the plant in bright light and begin the procedure over again. Enjoy!
Quote:
We expect too much at Christmas. It's got to be magical. It's got to go right. Feasting. Fun. The perfect present. All that anticipation. Take it easy. Love's the thing. The rest is tinsel. -- Pam Brown.
Blessings
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
What are you dreaming of?
There's a silly little Christmas (nothing spiritual about it!) song where the girl lists all the expensive things she wants for Christmas. Hubby and I were chuckling about her greediness the other day, but really, there's nothing funny about it.
People are so-o-o greedy nowadays. (Did our forefathers think that, too?) I mean, from wrecks to being offended by something, people all over are suing for all they can get. Teenagers want, want, want. Grownups have to keep up with neighbors. Where in all the hustle is the simplicity of life in general and Christmas in specific? Why can't we be satisfied with what we have?
But enough of my spouting off. What I really want to know--what are you dreaming of this season?
In my teen class Sunday, I challenged them--all the Sundays in December we would write down on a small scrap of paper what we really wanted to accomplish in 2007, or what we'd like to change about ourselves. Then we placed them in this clear plastic star--a small one. I told them that three or four times next year we'd get it out and read our papers, see how close we're coming to seeing them fulfilled. Hopefully, some, if not all, of us, we'll see some success!
I'll share with you, my dear readers, one of my dreams: to see one (or more--see I am greedy, too. [Hanging head!]) or my books published. Will I succeed? I don't know, but I'm sure going to do all I can to accomplish it. One way or the other! Giggle!
Now, why don't you write down something you'd really like to accomplish for 2007 and put it in a safe place. Strive for that goal. You never know, we just might reach them.
One of my favorite sayings is: reach for the stars, you might hit the moon, but at least you've gone higher than what you are now! Pretty good.
Here's a story I came across that touched my heart. Since hubby and I have spent time working with the Navajo's and they are precious to us, I really liked it and wanted to share with you. They are a generous people, although needy. I love them dearly and have many fond memories of times with them. Enjoy!
A Navajo Celebration
After prayer meeting on Christmas Eve a Navajo woman motioned me aside. Because I was geared to giving rather than receiving I was surprised when she invited me to spend Christmas Day at her mother's home. This turned out to be one of the most meaningful Christmases I've ever spent anywhere.
Here's some hints for the ladies of a century or so back. I thought it was fun reading and you might enjoy it. Smile!
Quote:
The things that matter the most in this world, they can never be held in our hands. --Gloria Gaither
Blessings.
There's a silly little Christmas (nothing spiritual about it!) song where the girl lists all the expensive things she wants for Christmas. Hubby and I were chuckling about her greediness the other day, but really, there's nothing funny about it.
People are so-o-o greedy nowadays. (Did our forefathers think that, too?) I mean, from wrecks to being offended by something, people all over are suing for all they can get. Teenagers want, want, want. Grownups have to keep up with neighbors. Where in all the hustle is the simplicity of life in general and Christmas in specific? Why can't we be satisfied with what we have?
But enough of my spouting off. What I really want to know--what are you dreaming of this season?
In my teen class Sunday, I challenged them--all the Sundays in December we would write down on a small scrap of paper what we really wanted to accomplish in 2007, or what we'd like to change about ourselves. Then we placed them in this clear plastic star--a small one. I told them that three or four times next year we'd get it out and read our papers, see how close we're coming to seeing them fulfilled. Hopefully, some, if not all, of us, we'll see some success!
I'll share with you, my dear readers, one of my dreams: to see one (or more--see I am greedy, too. [Hanging head!]) or my books published. Will I succeed? I don't know, but I'm sure going to do all I can to accomplish it. One way or the other! Giggle!
Now, why don't you write down something you'd really like to accomplish for 2007 and put it in a safe place. Strive for that goal. You never know, we just might reach them.
One of my favorite sayings is: reach for the stars, you might hit the moon, but at least you've gone higher than what you are now! Pretty good.
Here's a story I came across that touched my heart. Since hubby and I have spent time working with the Navajo's and they are precious to us, I really liked it and wanted to share with you. They are a generous people, although needy. I love them dearly and have many fond memories of times with them. Enjoy!
A Navajo Celebration
After prayer meeting on Christmas Eve a Navajo woman motioned me aside. Because I was geared to giving rather than receiving I was surprised when she invited me to spend Christmas Day at her mother's home. This turned out to be one of the most meaningful Christmases I've ever spent anywhere.
Sitting on the dirt floor we ate a dinner of mutton stew, Navajo fried bread, raw hot green peppers, and coffee. A gunny sack served as a tablecloth. There weren't enough bowls and spoons to go around but no one seemed to mind waiting until another had eaten and the bowl was washed. Leftover food and the gunny sack were put away carefully at the end of the meal.
Edith Mae Merky Bloomfield, N.M.
Here's some hints for the ladies of a century or so back. I thought it was fun reading and you might enjoy it. Smile!
A Victorian Christmas
 | Tasteful Giving - The Ladies World, Dec. 1892 It takes common sense and independence to accept a costly present from a rich friend, without making any return. If you have money to spend on presents, do not waste on people richer than yourself, but on those poorer. Above all, in sending presents do not send articles that cost money and are vulgar and tawdry. A piece of music, a note written on Christmas Day, wishing many happy returns, or a few flowers entail no obligation, require no work, and do their own work of love as well as costly gifts, and show a delicacy of breeding. |
Quote:
The things that matter the most in this world, they can never be held in our hands. --Gloria Gaither
Blessings.
Friday, December 08, 2006
A.A.A.D.D.
I thought this was hilarious! Thanks go again to Margie for sending this to me.
Don't we all hate the thoughts of aging? I mean, why else all the face cream and masks? The constant mirror inspections? And why, oh, why, do the men get all the breaks? Sure, he should open the doors for us so we can enter (better to risk getting shot at in some of our stores, at least we'll go to our eternal rewards first!) But, hey, why should we be first to get the wrinkles and gray hair? I ask you, is that fair? No way, says I. I've never talked to God about this--wonder if it would do any good?
But let me tell you. What's the alternative? Uh, I guess I'll take the getting old bit. (Groan)
But anyway, regardless what I think about it, this article is good for a hearty laugh. Enjoy.
"Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. (Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder) Here's how it manifests:
I decide to wash my car. As I start toward the garage, I notice that there is mail on the hall table. I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car. I lay my car keys down on the table, put the junk mail in the trash can under the table, and notice that the trash can is full.
So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the trash first. But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out the trash anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my checkbook off the table, and see that there is only one check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go to my desk where I find the can of Coke that I had been drinking.
I'm going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Coke aside so that I so that I don't accidentally knock it over. I see that the Coke is getting warm and I decide I should put it in the refriderator to keep it cold. As I head toward the kitchen with the coke a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye--they need to be watered.
I set the Coke down on the counter and discover my reading glasses I've been searching for all morning. I decide I'd better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers. I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water, splash some on the flowers, with most of it spilling on the floor. So I get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.
At the end of the day:
The car isn't washed.
The bills aren't paid.
There's a warm can of Coke still sitting on the counter.
The flowers aren't watered.
There is still only one check in my checkbook.
I can't find my glasses and
I don't remember what I did with the car keys.
Then when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all day long, and I'm really tired. I realize this is a serious problem. I'll try to get some help for it. First, though, I'll check my email.
Do me a favor, will you? Don't laugh, if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!" (Wicked laugh!)
Growing old is mandatory.
Growing up is optional.
Laughing at yourself is therapeutic.
One thing I forgot to mention yesterday about the reader contest: When you email me or call me, don't forget to give me your address. Some of your addresses I may have, but not everyone.
Here are some cute Christmas wrapping hints:
* Stars Gift Wrap -- wrap gift with either star decorated paper or plain. Tie with a gold or silver ribbon. If using plain paper, glue or stick silver/gold stars on paper. Add a star ornament to the top of gift.
* Same as above, only snowflake gift, use silver paper and white ribbon. Nutcracker--use paper covered with candy and tie with a red ribbon. Angel--use paper covered with angels (or use your imagination. Tie with gold ribbon. Use appropriate ornaments on top!
* Fresh Pine/Mistletoe/Holly gift wrap -- Wrap gift in dark green paper. Tie with burgandy ribbon. Add the small piece of pine, mistletoe, or holly to top. Pine smells wonderful! Mistletoe is romantic. And holly is pretty. (Warning--don't let pets or kids nibble on these items! Poisonous to them.)
* Jingle Bells wrap -- Wrap gift in green paper and tie with a red ribbon. Add two jingle bells to the ends of the ribbon and tie in a knot to secure them.
* One more. Winter White Gift wrap -- Wrap gift in white paper, maybe with some texture in it. Wrap gift with white ribbon (yarn, anything). Complete gift wrap with a white poinsettia flower.
Quote:
Friendship cheers like a sunbeam; charms like a good story; inspires like a brave leader; binds like a golden chain; guides like a heavenly vision. --Newell Dwight Hillis
Blessings.
I thought this was hilarious! Thanks go again to Margie for sending this to me.
Don't we all hate the thoughts of aging? I mean, why else all the face cream and masks? The constant mirror inspections? And why, oh, why, do the men get all the breaks? Sure, he should open the doors for us so we can enter (better to risk getting shot at in some of our stores, at least we'll go to our eternal rewards first!) But, hey, why should we be first to get the wrinkles and gray hair? I ask you, is that fair? No way, says I. I've never talked to God about this--wonder if it would do any good?
But let me tell you. What's the alternative? Uh, I guess I'll take the getting old bit. (Groan)
But anyway, regardless what I think about it, this article is good for a hearty laugh. Enjoy.
"Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. (Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder) Here's how it manifests:
I decide to wash my car. As I start toward the garage, I notice that there is mail on the hall table. I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car. I lay my car keys down on the table, put the junk mail in the trash can under the table, and notice that the trash can is full.
So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the trash first. But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out the trash anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my checkbook off the table, and see that there is only one check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go to my desk where I find the can of Coke that I had been drinking.
I'm going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Coke aside so that I so that I don't accidentally knock it over. I see that the Coke is getting warm and I decide I should put it in the refriderator to keep it cold. As I head toward the kitchen with the coke a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye--they need to be watered.
I set the Coke down on the counter and discover my reading glasses I've been searching for all morning. I decide I'd better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers. I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water, splash some on the flowers, with most of it spilling on the floor. So I get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.
At the end of the day:
The car isn't washed.
The bills aren't paid.
There's a warm can of Coke still sitting on the counter.
The flowers aren't watered.
There is still only one check in my checkbook.
I can't find my glasses and
I don't remember what I did with the car keys.
Then when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all day long, and I'm really tired. I realize this is a serious problem. I'll try to get some help for it. First, though, I'll check my email.
Do me a favor, will you? Don't laugh, if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!" (Wicked laugh!)
Growing old is mandatory.
Growing up is optional.
Laughing at yourself is therapeutic.
One thing I forgot to mention yesterday about the reader contest: When you email me or call me, don't forget to give me your address. Some of your addresses I may have, but not everyone.
Here are some cute Christmas wrapping hints:
* Stars Gift Wrap -- wrap gift with either star decorated paper or plain. Tie with a gold or silver ribbon. If using plain paper, glue or stick silver/gold stars on paper. Add a star ornament to the top of gift.
* Same as above, only snowflake gift, use silver paper and white ribbon. Nutcracker--use paper covered with candy and tie with a red ribbon. Angel--use paper covered with angels (or use your imagination. Tie with gold ribbon. Use appropriate ornaments on top!
* Fresh Pine/Mistletoe/Holly gift wrap -- Wrap gift in dark green paper. Tie with burgandy ribbon. Add the small piece of pine, mistletoe, or holly to top. Pine smells wonderful! Mistletoe is romantic. And holly is pretty. (Warning--don't let pets or kids nibble on these items! Poisonous to them.)
* Jingle Bells wrap -- Wrap gift in green paper and tie with a red ribbon. Add two jingle bells to the ends of the ribbon and tie in a knot to secure them.
* One more. Winter White Gift wrap -- Wrap gift in white paper, maybe with some texture in it. Wrap gift with white ribbon (yarn, anything). Complete gift wrap with a white poinsettia flower.
Quote:
Friendship cheers like a sunbeam; charms like a good story; inspires like a brave leader; binds like a golden chain; guides like a heavenly vision. --Newell Dwight Hillis
Blessings.
Thursday, December 07, 2006
Chocolates and Heroes!
Okay, I promised this to you. All you, my dear readers:
Everyone that gets five readers to promise to read my blog (at least once a month, now that's not asking too much, is it?) will get . . . drum roll ~~~~~~~~~~
Chocolate candy! Yeah, that's right. I'll send you some good chocolate right around Christmas.
Here's the rules:
1) Invite five people to become one of my readers.
2) Contact me via email, phone, etc. and let me know their names
3) Contest runs till close to Christmas. (I'll be the judge, but I'm lenient!)
4) Wait for that chocolate box in mail. (good chocolate, remember!)
Now you all get to work!
Someone sent me this bit of information this morning (thanks, Margie!). It really touched me. In fact I thought it was so good I wanted to share with you today. Enjoy!
"In case we find ourselves starting to believe all the anti-American sentiment and negativity, we should remember England's Prime Minister Tony Blair's words during a recent interview. When asked by one of his parliament members why he believes so much in America, he said,
'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look for how many want in . . . and how many want out.'
Only two defining forces have ever offered to die for you:
1) Jesus Christ
2) The American G.I.
One died for your soul, the other for your freedom.
Touching, huh?
Here are some hints for taking Christmas pictures (good for anytime, really! Ooops! I forgot my brother's wife is a photographer & takes some really neat pictures--I've seen some. They're good!)
Anyway, try these:
1) First, the biggest mistake people make is that they take photos too close to faces. This distorts faces and their colors and also highlights any little imperfections! Make sure the photographer is a reasonable distance away.
2) Many people lean away from the camera. Rather, you should lean towards it slightly.
3) Try to look directly at the camera for most flattering results.
4) Finally, smile as close as you can to the shot being taken. A faded smile from holding it too long looks a bit strange in a photo!
Quote:
Happiness is intrinsic, it's an internal thing. When you build it into yourself, no external circumstances can take it away. --Leo Buscaglia
Blessings
Okay, I promised this to you. All you, my dear readers:
Everyone that gets five readers to promise to read my blog (at least once a month, now that's not asking too much, is it?) will get . . . drum roll ~~~~~~~~~~
Chocolate candy! Yeah, that's right. I'll send you some good chocolate right around Christmas.
Here's the rules:
1) Invite five people to become one of my readers.
2) Contact me via email, phone, etc. and let me know their names
3) Contest runs till close to Christmas. (I'll be the judge, but I'm lenient!)
4) Wait for that chocolate box in mail. (good chocolate, remember!)
Now you all get to work!
Someone sent me this bit of information this morning (thanks, Margie!). It really touched me. In fact I thought it was so good I wanted to share with you today. Enjoy!
"In case we find ourselves starting to believe all the anti-American sentiment and negativity, we should remember England's Prime Minister Tony Blair's words during a recent interview. When asked by one of his parliament members why he believes so much in America, he said,
'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look for how many want in . . . and how many want out.'
Only two defining forces have ever offered to die for you:
1) Jesus Christ
2) The American G.I.
One died for your soul, the other for your freedom.
Touching, huh?
Here are some hints for taking Christmas pictures (good for anytime, really! Ooops! I forgot my brother's wife is a photographer & takes some really neat pictures--I've seen some. They're good!)
Anyway, try these:
1) First, the biggest mistake people make is that they take photos too close to faces. This distorts faces and their colors and also highlights any little imperfections! Make sure the photographer is a reasonable distance away.
2) Many people lean away from the camera. Rather, you should lean towards it slightly.
3) Try to look directly at the camera for most flattering results.
4) Finally, smile as close as you can to the shot being taken. A faded smile from holding it too long looks a bit strange in a photo!
Quote:
Happiness is intrinsic, it's an internal thing. When you build it into yourself, no external circumstances can take it away. --Leo Buscaglia
Blessings
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
PROBLEMS
Hey, you all. I've been hearing from some of my readers that you haven't seen anything since sometime in November. Well, I've been writing, I don't know what the problem is. Hopefully, it'll be fixed shortly. Keep watching.
Hints for children:
One thing you should ensure at Christmas is that your children (old enough, of course) write little thank you notes to those who've given them gifts: grandparents, etc.
There is nothing nicer than receiving a personal thank you for a gift that you have given, particularly from young children.
Help them write it if necessary. It need not be long, but it's good practice for them at writing, too. Also a good way to start is to ask them to think about what it is they like best about the gift they've received. Tell them to all they need to do then is write it down on paper.
Quote:
Blessed are they who give without remembering, and take without forgetting. --Elizabeth Bibesco
Blessings.
Hey, you all. I've been hearing from some of my readers that you haven't seen anything since sometime in November. Well, I've been writing, I don't know what the problem is. Hopefully, it'll be fixed shortly. Keep watching.
Hints for children:
One thing you should ensure at Christmas is that your children (old enough, of course) write little thank you notes to those who've given them gifts: grandparents, etc.
There is nothing nicer than receiving a personal thank you for a gift that you have given, particularly from young children.
Help them write it if necessary. It need not be long, but it's good practice for them at writing, too. Also a good way to start is to ask them to think about what it is they like best about the gift they've received. Tell them to all they need to do then is write it down on paper.
Quote:
Blessed are they who give without remembering, and take without forgetting. --Elizabeth Bibesco
Blessings.
Friday, December 01, 2006
SNOWMEN Who Don't Melt from the Warmth
I love snowmen!
I've collected many things through the years, but I honestly think snowmen are some of the cutest, cuddliest things created. And the choices they have! Men and women, children snowpeople. Active ones, those formed with families. Bright colors, cute costumes. White, antiqued, clear iced ones, funny, and nostalgic ones.
A friend has all the ones she's collected in her shelves and top-of-cabinet spaces. Darling! I stand open-mouthed studying each one.
Take the new one I bought this year (at a bargain shop, so I didn't have to spend a lot of money!) It was a stackable, 3 round boxes with the snowman's head, facial features, & hat on the top small one. Hands & buttons on the second, and I think maybe a little decoration on the bottom one.
Interested in mystery? Hmmm. What could be hidden in those boxes? For children, a gift of such fun boxes would be (especially with promises of hidden treasures) -- delightful suspense. A friend? Give her a snowman box with some of her favorite things tucked inside. Who could ask for more?
And they make such fun Christmas decorations. Do you like simple things? Use only a few, and better, pick out a select few that are sleek with simplicity. Scatter them here and there throughout your house. Want only one focal point without having them all over your house? Then choose a table top and set a several small ones together as a collection.
Use a large one to greet your guests at your front door. Or pick out a few snowmen ornaments to use as name tags at a dinner. Place settings with the folded card tucked inside the snowmen ornament string/loop are cute as take-home mementos.
Most of all, if you decide to love those melting human-creations, enjoy their simplicity.
Some Pre-holiday hints to make this month go smoother:
First of all, take it easy. Don't over extend yourself. Enjoy the holiday season. If there's been a tragedy in your recent life, try to reshape this holiday to make it fun and fulfilling once again. Try to make some changes in your traditional celebration. Don't try to live out the expectations of others.
* Who do you want to buy presents for? Divide your list in two parts: large and small. Those who receive larger gifts and those who will get the smaller one. Then divide again. Do you really need to buy a gift when a little memento or card will do? People just want to be remembered.
* Do you want to bake? Choose a few of your favorites. Don't do a massive baking, unless you really want to.
* How will you decorate, and do you want to? Look through past year items. Any need repairing? Replacing? Discarded?
* How much money do you have to spend? Be firm with yourself! Try doing more with less money. Be creative. It may take a little more effort, but in January, you'll be glad you did.
* Are you entertaining? How much? When? Plan early, invite early, so that you won't be disappointed and your friends and family will have time to make their plans and accept yours.
* Cleaning? Be kind to yourself. If you can afford it, hire someone to help you. Or if you have close friends, have a cleaning swap. Maybe three afternoons. Result: Spic and span houses.
* Interested in participating/enjoying some Christmas festivities? Choose selectively. Look for free Christmas programs and cantatas. Go to parks to enjoy the festive light displays. Churches offer many programs and plays.
* Worried about spats in the family get togethers? Sometimes there's not much that can be done. Try prayer. Try getting the parties together on neutral ground and allowing them to talk the problem out. Let a friend or someone similar be the mediator; stay out of it personally. Or if all else fails, arrange for visits from each at different times.
* Traveling? Remember that if you travel on Christmas eve or Christmas day, many places will be closed. Plan on your meals, your place of stay.
Remember: the key is to take it easy. Christmas will still come regardless of how much we do or don't do.
Quote:
The first fall of snow is not only an event but it is a magical event. You go to bed in one kind of world and wake up to find yourself in another quite different, and if this is not enchantment, then where is it to be found? -- J.B. Priestley
Blessings.
I love snowmen!
I've collected many things through the years, but I honestly think snowmen are some of the cutest, cuddliest things created. And the choices they have! Men and women, children snowpeople. Active ones, those formed with families. Bright colors, cute costumes. White, antiqued, clear iced ones, funny, and nostalgic ones.
A friend has all the ones she's collected in her shelves and top-of-cabinet spaces. Darling! I stand open-mouthed studying each one.
Take the new one I bought this year (at a bargain shop, so I didn't have to spend a lot of money!) It was a stackable, 3 round boxes with the snowman's head, facial features, & hat on the top small one. Hands & buttons on the second, and I think maybe a little decoration on the bottom one.
Interested in mystery? Hmmm. What could be hidden in those boxes? For children, a gift of such fun boxes would be (especially with promises of hidden treasures) -- delightful suspense. A friend? Give her a snowman box with some of her favorite things tucked inside. Who could ask for more?
And they make such fun Christmas decorations. Do you like simple things? Use only a few, and better, pick out a select few that are sleek with simplicity. Scatter them here and there throughout your house. Want only one focal point without having them all over your house? Then choose a table top and set a several small ones together as a collection.
Use a large one to greet your guests at your front door. Or pick out a few snowmen ornaments to use as name tags at a dinner. Place settings with the folded card tucked inside the snowmen ornament string/loop are cute as take-home mementos.
Most of all, if you decide to love those melting human-creations, enjoy their simplicity.
Some Pre-holiday hints to make this month go smoother:
First of all, take it easy. Don't over extend yourself. Enjoy the holiday season. If there's been a tragedy in your recent life, try to reshape this holiday to make it fun and fulfilling once again. Try to make some changes in your traditional celebration. Don't try to live out the expectations of others.
* Who do you want to buy presents for? Divide your list in two parts: large and small. Those who receive larger gifts and those who will get the smaller one. Then divide again. Do you really need to buy a gift when a little memento or card will do? People just want to be remembered.
* Do you want to bake? Choose a few of your favorites. Don't do a massive baking, unless you really want to.
* How will you decorate, and do you want to? Look through past year items. Any need repairing? Replacing? Discarded?
* How much money do you have to spend? Be firm with yourself! Try doing more with less money. Be creative. It may take a little more effort, but in January, you'll be glad you did.
* Are you entertaining? How much? When? Plan early, invite early, so that you won't be disappointed and your friends and family will have time to make their plans and accept yours.
* Cleaning? Be kind to yourself. If you can afford it, hire someone to help you. Or if you have close friends, have a cleaning swap. Maybe three afternoons. Result: Spic and span houses.
* Interested in participating/enjoying some Christmas festivities? Choose selectively. Look for free Christmas programs and cantatas. Go to parks to enjoy the festive light displays. Churches offer many programs and plays.
* Worried about spats in the family get togethers? Sometimes there's not much that can be done. Try prayer. Try getting the parties together on neutral ground and allowing them to talk the problem out. Let a friend or someone similar be the mediator; stay out of it personally. Or if all else fails, arrange for visits from each at different times.
* Traveling? Remember that if you travel on Christmas eve or Christmas day, many places will be closed. Plan on your meals, your place of stay.
Remember: the key is to take it easy. Christmas will still come regardless of how much we do or don't do.
Quote:
The first fall of snow is not only an event but it is a magical event. You go to bed in one kind of world and wake up to find yourself in another quite different, and if this is not enchantment, then where is it to be found? -- J.B. Priestley
Blessings.
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