Friday, August 31, 2012

A Weird Contest . . .

 
How would you like to meet this friendly guy in your backyard?
 
How often do you use animals in your novels?
 
Tell me about a favorite pet and you could win a prize
(at least two books if I really like yours!)
if yours is chosen!
 
Blessings! 


Wednesday, August 29, 2012

A Letter to a Teacher by Author Cleo Lampos

A warm welcome, Cleo. So glad to have you. Readers, enjoy her post today and be sure to check out her books.


Have you ever written a letter to a teacher who made an impact on your life? I have.

Several years ago, while attending a family reunion, one of my cousins shared that Mae Erie, my second and third grade teacher, asked about “those Meiners girls.” Many months later, my sister found Mrs. Erie on the internet, and I composed a letter of thanks to her for being the firm and fair teacher in a one-room country school in Iowa. The letter described my love of books, for Mrs. Erie read aloud to the class every day. Uncle Tom’s Cabin, by Harriet Beecher Stowe, changed many of my attitudes as a second grader.. Mornings started with the Lord’s Prayer, the Pledge to the Flag, and recitations of both the Preamble to the Constitution and the Gettysburg Address, giving a moral foundation to the entire school. Most of all, Mrs. Erie treated each student with respect and great expectations.

In the cases of my older sister and me, Mrs. Erie’s belief in our abilities became critical to our later success in life. Our father had died when we were preschoolers, and our mother married a man who drank excessively. We lived in an uninsulated chicken house with no running water. Mrs. Erie gave us winter coats so the two-mile walk in Iowa winter weather could be tolerable. She told us that we were creative and smart.

My letter arrived a bit late for Mae Erie. Her daughter took the mail to the nursing home where she lived in the dementia ward. The entire staff heard the letter and posted it on the bulletin board so all visitors could read of the beloved teacher. Mrs. Erie’s daughter wrote back that during all the years that Mae was lucid, she prayed for “those Meiners girls”. She would have been proud to know that we both have Masters Degrees and have taught in the field of Special Education. Mae Erie’s prayers were answered because God did watch over two girls in difficult circumstances.

Have you ever written a letter to a teacher? I wish I had done so sooner.

 

Cleo Lampos attended eight schools in three states before graduating from Fort Atkinson High School in Wisconsin. She earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Education from University of Wisconsin-Whitewater, and a Master’s in Education from St. Xavier University in Chicago. For twenty-six years, she taught in a district described as “an urban school in a suburban setting.” From her experiences as a teacher in both the regular education and special education classrooms, she has written a devotional book for teachers. Teaching Diamonds in the Tough: Mining the Potential in Every Child is a series of vignettes designed to inspire any adult who teaches children in Sunday School, clubs or classrooms to delve beyond the behavior of children to their potential. Coupled with Scripture, quotes and a suggested plan, the book challenges the reader to action. Lampos also authored Grandpa’s Remembering Book, which describes a family-friendly strategy to utilize with a person with dementia.

To buy her "Teaching Diamonds" book go here:
Amazon
To buy her "Grandpa's" book, go here:
Amazon


Tell Lampos about your favorite teacher. She may be reached at
clampos@sbcglobal.net or her website: http://www.CleoLampos.com.


Blessings!

Monday, August 27, 2012

Monday Morning Gratitudes

fresh beginnings
mornings
the way the world smells after a refreshing rain
storage areas
good piano music
good sax music
the last rose of the season
the first one, too.

Blessings!

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Sunday Morning Peace


Never mind what others do;
do better than yourself;
beat your own record from day to day,
and you are a success.

--Wm J.H. Boetcker

Friday, August 24, 2012

What the World Needs . . .

Puppies . . . for Sale

A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the four pups and set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls.

He looked down into the eyes of a little boy.

Mister," the boy said, "I want to buy one of your puppies."

"Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, "These puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money."

The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. "I've got thirty-nine cents.Is that enough to take a look?"


"Sure," said the farmer. And with that he let out a whistle. "Here, Dolly!"


Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur.


 The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight. As the dogs made their way to the fence,the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse.

Slowly another little ball appeared, this one noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid.Then in a somewhat awkward manner, the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up...

"I want that one," the little boy said, pointing to the runt.
 
The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said, "Son, you don't want that puppy.He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would."

With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers. In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself to a specially made shoe.

Looking back up at the farmer, he said, "You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will need someone who understands."

With tears in his eyes, the farmer reached down and picked up the little pup.

Holding it carefully he handed it to the little boy.

"How much?" asked the little boy.

"No charge," answered the farmer, "There's no charge for love."

 The world is full of people who need someone who understands.

I love animal stories. This touched my heart and hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Blessings!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Welcome to My Friend to

It's good to have Jill here today.
Jill Richardson, Pastor of Discipleship at Resolution Church outside of Chicago, is the author of Don't Forget to Pack the Kids: Short-Term Missions for Your Whole Family. Don't Forget to Pack the Kids offers practical information that readers can use immediately to begin their dream of family missions. Through stories of her own family's odyssey to China and the collected wisdom of sending missions agencies, the author encourages parents to pack the kids—and go!

On to the interview:

What prompted you to write this book?
I wrote Don’t Pack the Kids out of a conviction that our families need to experience mission together as well as out of the amazing experience of actually doing it. This is true now more than ever, as statistics tell us over three-fourths of our kids will leave the church when they leave home. Why? Part of the reason is their feeling that church is irrelevant to their lives and they can get entertainment and fulfillment elsewhere.

I believe with all my heart that if we taught our kids early that the church is relevant because they are the church, and it is fulfilling because they fill it with their gifts and ministry, we could reverse those statistics. Missions can be a huge part of that.

What made you take your family on a mission trip?
My husband and I had talked about the idea of a short-term mission trip for three years. As our girls got older, I saw them adapting more and more to our relatively easy life in the suburbs. Most of the kids in their schools look, dress, and think alike. Most live in well-above-average homes. I was worried that our culture of prosperity and instant gratification would numb them. We didn't want them unaware of and unconcerned with the hurting world beyond their comfortable lives.


Where did you go? For how long?
We went to China, for two weeks. We spent the time working in a orphanage and in grade schools.

What results did you see in your family from that time?
It's not magic. Life lessons take, well, a lifetime. But we saw right away that they noticed more. They understood gratefulness on a new level. They flew to the TV to find out how “their” kids were after the earthquake in China. Things all the way around the world mattered.

Have the effects remained over time?
Of course it's easy, and normal, to get used to what you have and want more again. But I can see that they do know they can change things. I have seen them tackle tough situations in their peer lives believing they can make a difference. They've got a way of rising above the pettiness of the world beyond their ages. I do believe that's from really seeing the world, and seeing the effects of faith. And, they want to go, and have gone, on mission trips by themselves.

What obstacles keep families from going?
Money. Fear. Which is really the same thing. The money issue is fear as well. So yeah, that's the big one. I wrote the book to help families know they don't have to fear and to give them steps to take to overcome not knowing what to do.

What would you say to people who don’t believe short-term missions are a good use of resources?
Mathematically, they're not. If you go somewhere for two weeks, you won't change the world. Not yet, anyway. Yes, the people themselves could use that money more efficiently, if all you're looking at is immediate practical return on investment. But I think that's a wrong way to look at things. You need an eternal, long-term vantage. If you weigh the precise value of sending a six-year-old to China, you won't get a return on your investment that you can quantify. What you will get is a kid who grows up who loves better, cares more, and is determined to make a difference. You have no idea how far-reaching that will be. You have a family on fire for missions returning to a home church and refusing to let things be business as usual. Done wrong, yes it can be damaging. Done right, it can have a ripple effect that no one sees the end of.

What would you tell someone is the first step in the process of taking a mission trip? Pray? That's a given, pretty much. I knew when the time was right and the place was right.

What would you say to a family that wants to go but worries about the obstacles?
When we started researching our China trip, my husband had a god job, and we had just bought a house. A few month later, he lost that job, and we had to live off our refinancing for four months. We were still paying student loans. It cost $10,000 for five of us to go to China. We decided that if God called us, God would make the way. If God says go, don't let anything discourage you.

Anything else?
This is about more than missions, although that is so close to my heart and the heart of God. It’s about being Jesus, at any age, together. It’s about transformation for you, your kids, and your world. It’s about short-term missions but a long-term change.

Find Don't Forget to Pack the Kids: Short-Term Missions for Your Whole Family-

http://amzn.to/LAXXJD

Talk to Jill at:
https://www.facebook.com/jillwrites
http://jill-theimperfectjourney.blogspot.com


View the book trailer:
http://www.youtube.com/user/jillmarierichardson
 

 
Thanks for joining us, Jill!
Blessings, all.
 

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Sunday Morning Peace



My tongue is stirred by a noble theme
as I recite my verses
for the king;

my tongue is the pen of a skillful writer.
--Psalm 45:1

Friday, August 17, 2012

What in the World's Going on?


This is a statement that was read over the PA sytem at the football game at Roane County High School , Kingston , Tennessee by school Principal, Jody McLeod

"It has always been the custom at RoaneCountyHigh School football games, to say a prayer and play the National Anthem, to honor God and Country."

Due to a recent ruling by the Supreme Court, I am told that saying a Prayer is a violation of Federal Case Law. As I understand the law at this time, I can use this public facility to approve of sexual perversion and call it "an alternate life style," and if someone is offended, that's OK.

I can use it to condone sexual promiscuity, by dispensing condoms and calling it, "safe sex." If someone is offended, that's OK.

I can even use this public facility to present the merits of killing an unborn baby as a "viable! Means of birth control." If someone is offended, no problem...

I can designate a school day as "Earth Day" and involve students in activities to worship religiously and praise the goddess "Mother Earth" and call it "ecology.."

I can use literature, videos and presentations in the classroom that depicts people with strong, traditional Christian convictions as "simple minded" and "ignorant" and call it "enlightenment.."

However, if anyone uses this facility to honor GOD and to ask HIM to Bless this event with safety and good sportsmanship, then Federal Case Law is violated.

This appears to be inconsistent at best, and at worst, diabolical.
Apparently, we are to be tolerant of everything and anyone, except GOD and HIS Commandments.

Nevertheless , as a school principal, I frequently ask staff and students to abide by rules with which they do not necessarily agree. For me to do otherwise would be inconsistent at best, and at worst, hypocritical. I suffer from that affliction enough unintentionally. I certainly do not need to add an intentional transgression.

For this reason, I shall "Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar's," and refrain from praying at this time.

" However, if you feel inspired to honor, praise and thank GOD and ask HIM,in the name of JESUS, to bless this event, please feel free to do so.. As far as I know, that's not against the law----yet."

One by one, the people in the stands bowed their heads, held hands with one another and began to pray.

They prayed in the stands. They prayed in the team huddles. They prayed at the concession stand and they prayed in the Announcer's Box!

The only place they didn't pray was in the Supreme Court of the United States of America- the Seat of "Justice" in the "one nation, under GOD."

Somehow, Kingston , Tennessee remembered what so many have forgotten. We are given the Freedom OF Religion, not the Freedom FROM Religion.

Praise GOD that HIS remnant remains!

Hope this blesses you as much as it did me.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Welcome to Marsha Hubler


MARSHA HUBLER
BEST-SELLING AUTHOR OF:

 THE KEYSTONE STABLES SERIES
and
THE LOVES OF SNYDER COUNTY AMISH/MENNONITE SERIES

Marsha has had a background conducive to effective writing. She has a master’s degree in education from Bloomsburg University, Bloomsburg, PA, and has been an educator for over forty years. She had co-founded two private schools, Kreamer Christian Academy, Kreamer, PA, and the Bethesda Prep School, Milton, PA, and had served as teacher/administrator in each. She is presently a PA certified homeschool consultant, working out of her office in her Middleburg home, where she lives with her husband and two dogs.

Marsha has owned horses over a twenty-year period, therefore knows her horse facts in and out. She also lives in central PA, “Dutch” country, highly populated by the Amish and Mennonite, who have been a valuable first-hand resource for Marsha’s latest project, THE LOVES OF SNYDER COUNTY, a series about the Amish and Mennonite folk in the beautiful Susquehanna Valley in central PA.

About thirty years ago, she became interested in writing, selling children’s short stories and personal interest articles to magazines. As time passed and her writing interests expanded, she started to write books, the first one a Bible study guide about prayer, DRAW ME CLOSER, LORD, released in 2003. Her most well-known writing followed shortly thereafter when the eight-book KEYSTONE STABLES SERIES for tweens was published over a five-year period.

Marsha is excited that the KEYSTONE STABLES, published by Zonderkidz, Grand Rapids, Michigan, has become a best seller. She also is quite proud of her last two stand-alone books, RICKIE RIDES TO THE RESCUE and THE SECRET OF WOLF CANYON. She has 13 books in print with her Amish/Mennonite fiction series for ladies now joining her publishing credentials with an e-book release of BACHELOR’S CHOICE any day now.

She hears from her fans on a regular basis. Several said they have started to seriously think about God, and one gal wrote that she was thinking of killing herself until she read one of Marsha’s books.

“That’s the best pay any writer could ever get,” Marsha says. “I write not only to entertain but also to encourage my readers. Every one of my books has a positive outlook on life with solutions to every problem with God’s help.”

Her life verse is 1 Corinthians 15:10a: “But by the grace of God I am what I am …”

She loves to hear from her readers of all ages. Visit her at

http://www.marshahubler.com

http://www.facebook.com/#!/marsha.hubler.3

http://www.horsefactsbymarshahubler.wordpress.com


Check out Marsha's books. I'm sure you won't be disappointed!

Blessings!






Monday, August 13, 2012

Monday Morning Gratitudes

Bedtime after a busy day
star showers
rainbows (promises)
myriad of questions from children
kittens
first steps
water reflections
cloud formations
a new understanding of a scripture verse
the wonders of God's world

Blessings

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Sunday Morning Peace

Some things cannot be spoken or discovered until we have been stuck,
incapacitated, or blown off course for awhile.

Plain sailing is pleasant,
but you are not going to explore many unknown realms that way.

--David Whyte

Friday, August 10, 2012

Wednesday, August 08, 2012

A Warm Welcome to My Friend and Critique Partner, Max Lewis

I'm thrilled to have one of my critique partner's here today and so excited to see his writing endeavor seeing publishing fruit! Max and his publishing company are offering an e-copy to a random reader who comments and leaves their email address (Two chances! Comment on July 18's post and this one). Enjoy the interview!

How long have you known you were a writer? Did you receive a clear call or have you just love writing all your life?

I’ve probably known since I was a kid, but ignored the knowledge. I come from a working-class family and becoming a writer was not something that was on anyone’s radar screen. We were all encouraged, in some ways even required, to be ambitious, but along the lines of becoming a doctor, lawyer, businessman or manager. Eventually it took the good Lord blasting me out of my comfort zone, grabbing me by the ear and sitting me down behind the computer.

What is the genre you write in? Would you explain what it is?

I write thrillers that reflect a Christian worldview. A thriller typically means an individual(s) finds themselves in a situation where they can directly affect the health or safety or well-being of hundreds, thousands or even millions of people. There’s always conflict and usually violence of some kind involved. If the protagonist fails, in one way or another, lots of people get hurt and he probably dies.

How do you spend your writing days? Do you set goals to reach a certain number of words per day? Can you give us a general idea of how long it takes you to write a novel?

For me writing is obsessive. When I write my tendency and desire is to write, and continue to write, for hours at a time, and days on end, until I have the entire story down on paper. I’ve read various books on writing. Probably the closest description to how I write is the method described by Stephen King in “On Writing.” The first thing you do is download the story onto paper. Once the story’s downloaded, you go back and pretty it up. You add detail – what Angela Hunt calls adding mood music – weather, sounds, sight, etc. For me that often means expanding patches of narrative I put in the story and turning it into a scene. Even though I much prefer the writing of Dean Koontz to King, Koontz’s technique - doing a page over and over until its right before moving on would drive me batty.

For new writers out there, someone famous said, “when I say I write, I mean I re-write.” Sometimes new authors expect the first draft to be perfect or close to it. Don’t.

How long it takes for me to finish a novel depends upon my other obligations. I write a by weekly opinion column for the New Bethlehem Leader Vindicator and I practice law. Both of those obligations take priority over my novel writing because they pay the bills and people trust me to give them my best. Having said that, left to my own devices I could probably complete a novel in six months.

You recently had a book published. Would you take this time to describe it to us? How and where can readers buy your books?

The Diaries of Pontius opens when a member of an archeological team is murdered along the shores of the Dead Sea. We learn that the murderer and victim are both spies, observing the expedition and grappling with the fact that the team has just discovered some controversial artifacts.

In fact, Archeologist Kevin Elliot and his Deputy, Jill Gates have unearthed twenty copper scrolls etched with the results of Pontius Pilate’s year long criminal investigation into the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. They manage to open one scroll far enough to take a series of digital photographs of the writings and email them to a Professor of Ancient Latin for translation. Unaware of the scrolls content, Kevin and Jill are unprepared when they’re caught between an ancient conspiracy of global power that’s determined to destroy the scrolls and everyone connected to them, and a small, fledgling volunteer group, the only force on earth that stands between Kevin, Jill and certain death.

If you want to know more than that, you’re going to have to buy the book or win the contest.

Release date on the publisher’s website: August 3, 2012
Trestle Press - www.trestlepresspublishing.com, Amazon.com, Barnes and Nobel.com and book sellers can get it via Trestle or Baker & Taylor.

What is the spiritual message in your book? What can readers expect to get from reading it?

The spiritual message is Christians are called to act as salt and light in the earth. The church in the United States, in my opinion, has failed miserably at that in the last half century. The deterioration in our culture, government, and economics is a direct consequence of that failure. Let’s face it, to a large extent Christians don’t have the stomach for confrontation and they’ve retreated into their churches. Diaries hopes to use the thriller genre to inspire Christians to be more active and confrontational in their community and country. Finally, Diaries calls for Christian unity around the core of the Christian faith without relinquishing sincerely held differences.

Readers can expect a thriller – lots of action, excitement and suspense - all from a Christian world-view.

Do you ever feel like giving up? Most people don’t understand the stress, the work, and the joy of being a writer. How can you is becoming a writer is. You care to share how it feels, with discouraging/encouraging times you’ve gone through?

There’ve been times in the past when I have wondered whether I missed God. The exciting thing about that experience is each of the two times it’s happened since I began writing, the Lord has provided encouragement. The first time was right before I signed on with Diana Flegal at Hartline Literary. Without getting into the specifics, I just said to the Lord, I could really use a little encouragement right now. The next day there’s an e-mail from Diana saying she was really interested in the manuscript. A couple months later I had an agent. Then, once again after a few years of “were not taking on mid-list authors right now” (ouch) Diana called me to initiate the process that ended up with me signing with Trestle.
I’d tell all writers out there to remember that even if you’re certain the Lord has called you to write, there’s a course he wants you to run, so that when you arrive at the destination you’ll be prepared to handle it. Make sure it’s the Lord and when you’re sure it is, count the cost and pay it.

Who’s inspired you the most? 

Too many people to mention.

Would you explain how you chose(or were chosen by) a publisher? Do you just go any meaning mining model? Now that you’re published, can you sit back and relax from the success you’ve experienced?

My decision to go with Trestle press was based almost exclusively upon the recommendation of my agent. Over the last three years every time Diana has suggested that I take some action, including working with you as a crit partner, she’s been right. When she recommended I go with Trestle, I asked some questions, but in the end I knew I’d take her advice.

How Trestle chose me? They looked at my proposal and signed me. I remember how frustrating it is trying to get an agent and then trying to get a publisher. Those of you out there in that situation, no doubt like me, are searching for a silver bullet. The only thing I can tell you is just keep getting better. The way you get a publisher is you just get a publisher. Sorry.

I never relax.

Would you mind telling us some of your likes and dislikes? Hobbies, interests, where would you like to travel if you could?

I like reading. More than anything that is my favorite hobby and has been since I’ve been 10 or 11 years old. It serves you well when you want to be a writer. My wife and I rescue standard rough haired collies – yes, the ones like Lassie, not the little shelties, the big ones. One of the things I love about collies is they’re as good looking on the inside as they are on the outside. My wife and I love ethnic food, all kinds - Indian, Cambodian, Chinese and Mexican in particular.

Would you give is your blog or webpage so everyone can check it out? Anything else you’d like to share? Promotional information?  

Ladies - This is a book to buy for your believing or non-believing husband or son.

http://josephmaxlewis.com is my website (under construction; should be up in a few days-please check back) and also has my newspaper column posted. It’s not for the faint of heart.

I don’t know when the Lord’s coming back, but I would rather be found acting as salt and light, even if my efforts are destined to be fruitless, than to stay in my Church and wait for the Lord, even if He comes tomorrow. Many bemoan the lack of Christian art, but neglect to support it, telling themselves, “we’re being good stewards” when in fact we’re “muzzling the oxen.” Nevertheless, Christians spend billions supporting the larger culture and its books and movies. That needs to change, so, let’s change it.

BIO:
Joseph Max Lewis served as a member of an Operational Detachment in the U.S. Army's Seventh Special Forces Group, the storied Green Berets. During his service Lewis received antiterrorist training and his detachment was tasked to "Special Projects." Afterward, he served as an instructor at the Special Forces Qualification Course. Lewis attended the Pennsylvania State University, where he was elected to Phi Beta Kappa, the University of Tel Aviv in Israel, and the University of Pittsburgh, receiving degrees in International Politics and Law while being certified in Middle East Studies.

After living and studying abroad, first in the Middle East and then Southeast Asia, Lewis returned home to practice law. He’s a columnist in the New Bethlehem Leader-Vindicator and currently lives, writes, and practices law in and around Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.



Thanks, Max, for visiting this week!

Readers, for a chance to win his book, The Diaries of Pontius Pilate, be sure to leave your comment and email address. You have TWO chances: leave a comment on July 18's post and todays!

Blessings

Monday, August 06, 2012

Monday Morning Gratitudes

colored lights
the wonders  of God's world
waterfalls
reconnections with old friends
children's happiness
country lanes
city lights from afar
editing jobs completed
new ideas
fresh made coffee

Blessings

Sunday, August 05, 2012

Sunday Morning Peace

This thing we call failure is not falling down . . .
it's staying down.
--Mary Pickford

Blessings!

Friday, August 03, 2012

Influencers

What makes one person susceptible to others' opinions and another couldn't care less?

But that's not right.

Everyone is influenced. Yeah, that' s what I said. Be it other humans or circumstances we're all influenced by something. Maybe our reading material, maybe the media. Friends, family, even enemies influence us.

Now don't stomp me down. Listen to what I'm saying. We don't have to respond negatively to that influence. Say Terri Terrible calls me up, chews me out. How will I respond? Will I "get even" by slamming the phone and proceed to tell all my friends what an awful person she is? (Okay, if I do, I've allowed her to influence my response. But then, there could be other influences bearing on me. It wouldn't have to be just her.)

But what if T.T. calls and I respond sweetly. "I'm so sorry you feel that way? How can I make it better? (Did she cause me to react that way? Probably not. The influence there could be the reactions I learned from my parents: they always reacted that way. My church and/or religion, could have a bearing on what I say, how I feel. My personality could play on how I speak to her.

Weather, my physical and mental self, food. Whatever. You name it, and it could influence how you are, think, react.

Food? Definitely, food. Ever seen children eat too much sweets? What about people who're hooked on caffeine, or other items? Junk food? Certain soft drinks?

So why are children so different? One son stands up for what he wants and feels, the other goes with the flow. No matter who he's with, that's who influences him. Is he weak?

I say, with hesitancy, yes. But, then, when I think of all the times I've been influenced by someone, who am I to point a finger at him? I wish I had more of a backbone. Wish I could block out all those influences.

But wait, wouldn't that make me a box? Empty, without thought or feeling? How sterile would life be with just my own thoughts? Would I even have any? Or would I amble about bored with me? Bored with no challenge to accept or reject what's presented to me as real, false, entertaining, boring, life. Would I end up being a robot?

Life is life. We're always going to have to deal with it. Aren't influences some of the things that make life interesting? That cause me to think, to make the judgments in my life? To decide whether to go or stay, to be or not to be? Whatever choices (good or bad, harmful or helpful) we've made--well, at least we made them. (We may hang our head in shame or glow with happiness).

I think they're here to stay. What say you?

Blessings!

Wednesday, August 01, 2012

The Fifty-Fifty Conundrum

Award winning author Linda Rondeau is here today with an interesting guest post. Read and enjoy!

"But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name” (John 1:12 KJV).

As reported by Phil Rizzuto in a radio broadcast: When Ralph Houk was manager of the New York Yankees, baseball schedules were even more exacting than they are now, with double-headers almost every week. Occasionally a player would get sick of the grind and approach Houk, asking for permission to sit out a game. "I know how you feel," the manager would say genially. "Sure, take the day off, but do me a favor. You're in the starting lineup. Just play one inning. Then skip the rest of the game." The player would honor Houk's request--and almost invariably get caught up in the spirit of the game and play it out to the end.

An interesting solution, one that put the game ahead of all else and benefited both the manager and the player.

Marriage, like baseball, takes the full commitment of each partner to harvest good results. When one partner tires of the grind and folds, the consequences can be devastating. It takes both partners committed to the joy of the game to make a marriage work, a 100-100 proposition.

According to Dr. Phil, fifty-fifty unions are at risk for failure. The mindset denotes an expectation of a reward for enduring a period of sacrifice. The fifty-fifty principle results in score-keeping, certain to spark controversy, a heated, “Okay, it’s my turn now.”

The dictionary defines compromise, the basic premise of a fifty-fifty relationship, as a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; something intermediate between different things. This is the reason, according to Dr. Phil, that a fifty-fifty philosophy in marriage simply doesn’t work. But where decisions are based upon a 100-100 plan, i.e. what is best for the marriage rather than the individual, the marriage wins. And when the marriage wins, everyone benefits.

Is this true of our relationship to God?

In many wedding ceremonies, theologians remind the celebrants that marriage as God ordained, most resembles the union between God and the believer. I wonder if we fail to experience full joy in the Lord, because we approach our Faith with a fifty-fifty mentality. We serve God, read the Bible, pray, do our good deeds and all with the expectation that eventually God will reward us. When we believe God is slow on His part, we remind Him, “Okay, God, it’s my turn now.”

But, God in His wisdom encourages us not to tire of doing good things. He tells us, “I understand, you’re tired and want to sit one out. Tell you what, just get out there and bat a few times.” When we get back into the game, without expectation, our joy returns, a joy based on our relationship rather than service.

Oswald Chambers writes “The joy of Jesus was the absolute self-surrender and self-sacrifice of Himself to His Father, the joy of doing that which the Father sent Him to do.” Christ service emanated from his joy rather than service being a method to discover joy.

This is the unity God has planned for the believer from the beginning, the purpose for which Christ came, to reconcile the imperfect to the Perfect, the temporal with the Eternal. Our joy springs not from what we do for God, but from being one with God, a 100-100 experience.

“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: (Philippians 2:5-6 KJV).



A graduate of Houghton College, Rondeau has spent a previous career in the field of human services, often engaged with families in crisis. She credits these experiences in human drama as the edge in creating unforgettable characters. Furthermore, her prior work has shaped her vision of a future world should current sociological issues remain unchecked over the next several decades.

After more than thirty years in the Adirondack region of Northern New York, Rondeau now resides in Jacksonville, Florida with her husband Steve and their cat Duffer. When not writing, she enjoys theater, golf, and hiking.

She is a member of the Florida Writers Association, American Christian Fiction Writers, and several on-line writing groups. She is the owner and founder of Pentalk, a community of writers that features networking pages and a blog. Rondeau contributes a monthly column to her former community newspaper entitled, This Daily Grind and maintains a blog of the same name. Other blogs include Back in the Daze.

Also writing under the name of Linda Wood Rondeau, other books by this author include The Other Side of Darkness.

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