Showing posts with label work. Show all posts
Showing posts with label work. Show all posts

Friday, September 30, 2022

Rambling Friday: Preparing for Spring

I love flowers.

I love beauty.

I love when things I've wanted forever is finally ready to be done! 

Thankfully, I have a husband--who is always busy--who works with my wants as best as he can. 

That statement leads me to this:  We have a steep bank, cause we live on a mountain top--just kidding, but it is a nice-sized hill. The picture depicts some of the hill and some of the plans I have for it. Fall transplanting and fall bulb planting will, hopefully, produce a beautiful display of plants throughout next summer. 

It's only the beginning, but it's a start. Wish us luck! 

Friday, April 08, 2022

Rambling Friday: One Step at a Time

 As those who read my blog have learned, I had covid this winter. 

Hubby and I talked about many things on the phone before I could have visitors in the hospital, and we came to some decisions that we've needed to make for a while. 

One of the decisions we made was to slow down. And when I say that, I mean Hubby wants to semi-retire. Along with that decision comes this one: we want to pick up on our traveling. 

Now what I want you to know, we've traveled a LOT in our marriage, what with ministry and fun vacations, especially with family. But we've allowed ourselves to slow down on the fun things in life because of work. We forgot that all work and little play make the Browns dull people. We were drowning in all work and little play. 


But in the midst of that decision, I also made my own personal decisions. 

* I wanted to downsize, and what I mean by that: I have too much stuff! In storage, I have dish sets I've never used. Etc. Etc. I have things that I've thought about for years: someday I might use these. Really? Why do I have these? Why am I keeping all this stuff? So my family will be burdened with getting rid of it or deciding who wants it? I already know the answer. Sell, give away or trash. Now. I can see myself dusting my hands now...


* Another decision I made was to create heritage books for my two sons. I've wanted to do this for a while, but was always too busy with other things. This year is the year to do it...I made notes once I was able to do so in bed. I talked with hubby asking him questions about his ancestors. Since I've always wanted to do more family research (and I LOVE research), this is one I believe I will enjoy! 


*  One other decision I will list today is stop allowing myself to be stressed over my writing. My style is my style. I don't have to do everything, be involved in everything. So prioritizing is a priority for me. I need to remember that I don't have to write a book (and mine are not novellas) in a month. I can take my time, enjoy the research and the writing and feel fully satisfied when it's ready for publication. I can pick and choose what activities I want to participate in, that pertain to writing. 


 











I can enjoy my talent, my heart's desire, and my very favorite "job" that I've ever had. 



Of course, our decisions may adjust or change. Life happens. But in my heart, I know that we've made some great decisions. For now, that's good enough for me. 






Have you made changes in your life? 

Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Serious Wednesday: Becoming a Writer

Everyone wants to be a writer. 

Or so it seems.

But it takes more than a desire to be one. It takes persistence and diligence, study and research, tenacity and determination. BUT...

There are some simple ways to get started. Ways to find out if you really have it in you. Whether it's something you want to pursue or not.

Here are a few suggestions to begin:

  • Start small and build on that. Try your hand at a very simple (one page? one paragraph?) scene or short story. 
  • Think of a title you like, or that's catchy, or that you think could be popular. Work from that by making a list of what could happen.
  • If outlines scare you, don't worry about those. Just write and see where you go from there. Don't worry about editing. You can do that after your words are on paper. 
  • Create a story poem. 
  • Don't worry about where to start. Just write. 

Buy some writing books from your favorite author and read them. Put into practice what you've learned.

As you study writing, keep creating. Do the examples suggested. Keep a list of ideas that you could possibly use someday. 

Remember, there are all types of writers:
  • Journalists
  • non-fiction 
  • fiction (and the various genres)
  • poets
  • news article writers
  • copywriters
  • advertisement writers
  • memoir writers
  • legal article writers
and many more.

Just begin. Then...
Practice, practice, practice.


Happy Writing!

Wednesday, September 18, 2019

Serious Wednesdays: Becoming a Writer

Lots of people want to write and publish a book. That's the easy part. The hard part is actually doing it! What does it take to become an author?

Here are some simple steps for those serious about being an author:

1. Read. Read a lot! Genres you like and some you don't care much for. Hone your reading skills by practice. It gives you a broader sense of what's out there, what's popular, and most of all, what draws your attention. It will help you pin down what direction you want your own writing to head toward.

2.  Learn the skills of English. You might think you know the hows, whats and whens, but do you? As good as I was in English, when I seriously picked up writing again, I had to re-learn a few things. Writing changes with the times. You need to know the current punctuation, the dos and don'ts of how to use your descriptions, how to strengthen your dialogue, etc. Don't assume you know what's expected what a writer today.

3.  Practice. Begin by writing your thoughts, feelings, observations, life, whatever. Write a poem, a paragraph. Ask a question and write your answer in a paragraph or page. Journal. Write a letter. A very short story. Just write for practice.

4.  Once you've practiced (quite a bit), begin with an idea and plot! Write down what you want to happen, where you'll take a character, what actions will happen, what results will fail or succeed. Consider what characters will fill your pages, describe them, gather pictures if you want, how will they act, what will be their personalities? Write everything you can of what can and should happen in your book, big or small. And don't quit with the plotting. Adjust as necessary, change directions if you need to, but keep plotting.

5.  Be excited and write. Use your enthusiasm (wisely) to begin writing. Take breaks, ask for advice, research as you go (or beforehand), but keep focused and stay enthused. This is your book. You'll reach places where you don't know where to go possibly, how to do a scene, etc., but don't quit. Take a break, if you must, but return as soon as possible to your writing. Tomorrow you may delete a scene, a line or a character, but don't let that stop you. You're only making your writing stronger. Stay enthused.

6.  Stick with it. This is so important because, although it's okay to take breaks, to check our email or whatever, you must go right back to your writing and get the words on paper. Don't allow your breaks to take control of your desire to write. Because steady, continued writing, meeting your goals (whether it's 100 words or 1000) is so important if you're going to be a serious, successful writer. Stick with it!

7.  Ask Advice. Make friends with other writers. Search out and research different groups and see what fits you, then join. Eventually, hopefully, you'll find one or two writers similar to your genre likes who you can turn to for advice, critiquing your work, help in honing your baby to perfection. Listen, choose what's best for your writing, don't allow criticism to hurt, and keep on writing.

8.  Rewrite. You'll want to read through your manuscript at least once before asking others to critique it, so get that done. You'll probably want to correct mistakes, adjust a scene, delete a little, add some, but all of this will give you a chance to "clean" up your baby.

9.  Rewrite again. Once you get that first critique from a writing buddy, begin with the corrections and reread again. Some will find that this will do the job of making your manuscript as good as you can, but some manuscripts may take several rewrites. Don't get discouraged. You can do this, and after all, you want this to be the best it can be. It will reflect on you, your writing ability and your manuscript.

Finally...

10.  You'll be ready to share it. By now, you'll have an idea of where you want to go with your writing work. Is this written for family and friends or do you propose to share it with the world? This is critical in your satisfaction with your writing.

11.  Hopefully, you've found some writing workshops, conferences, gatherings, etc. where you've met other writers, agents, and publishers. Where you've learned a bit about the publishing world, how agents work, what genres they want, what's necessary to seek an agent or publisher. Don't pick the first one who smiles at you, but study them out and see what fits with your goals.


Most of all, don't quit. Rejections will come, Hard lifetimes will come that may interrupt you, blank times will hit you when you feel you have nothing more to write but don't quit. Take those breaks, relax a bit, experience a few things, then return. 

Happy writing days wished for you!


Friday, September 06, 2019

Rambling Friday: Our Failed Harvest

Oh, yeah, we're not much of a gardener family for several reasons.

Let me be clear, We love planting and having a garden so that's not the problem.

But what is the problem is:

  • pesky wild animals (like deer and rabbits and who knows what else) who also like eating food they've not worked for
  • busyness.
You see, we live a busy life with work, travel, ministry, family, and just plain life. We love being busy, but sometimes...things get a little too busy. That's where the problem comes in with gardening. Weeds don't get pulled. Watering is skimpy when we forget because we're gone or on the run with work. 

Then there are the wild animals who think we live here to feed them. If they're not eating our broccoli, they're feasting on whatever else looks tempting. Keeping them out is nearly impossible. Somehow they find a way. And probably laugh each time their supper is over--at our expense, of course. 

We have good intentions. We really want a garden and the produce from it. We love fresh produce and the satisfaction of eating the fruit of our gardening labors.

So there you have it. The two big reasons we seldom have much success at gardening. 
Sigh.
But then, there's next year. Maybe we'll give it a shot. After all, we have all year to plan how to succeed! 

Happy day! 

Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Passionate Writing: Work...and Contest Question #2

Can Anything be Sadder than
Work Unfinished?
Yes!
Work never begun.
--Christina Rossetti

Fear--
Fear cripples.
Fear damages
Fear holds a person back
from accomplishing.

Excuses--
I don't have time
I have to finish this first
I have to much to do right now
I don't know how
I'm not smart enough
big enough
strong enough
important enough--
I'm too tired.

Procrastination--
Tomorrow I'll have more time
After I come back from--
vacation
the store
visiting my mother, children, family, friends, whoever--
Not today, I've got to--
practice the piano
babysit
prepare dinner--


But wait:

You may delay, but time will not, and lost time is never found again.
— Benjamin Franklin

“The really happy people are those who have broken the chains of procrastination, 
those who find satisfaction in doing the job at hand. 
They’re full of eagerness, zest, productivity. 
You can be, too.”– Norman Vincent Peale
***
Contest Question #2
REMEMBER, Two things:
  • YOU MUST ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS OF THE MONTH to be considered for the monthly prize. And...


  • You MUST check back here on the last Wednesday of the month to see if you've won. I will usually share the blog link on my Facebook author page but it's YOUR obligation to contact me here on the blog with your mailing information (or you can let me know you'll share it with email or private message on FB. 


May's First Question:
Is there a genre you totally do not like?

May's Second Question:
What makes a wonderful mother?


Don't forget to share this site!


Wednesday, July 26, 2017

On Passionate Writing

On Passionate Writing . . .

No one is asking--
let alone demanding
that you write.
The world is not waiting with bated breath
on your article
or book.
Whether or not you get a single word on paper--
the sun will rise,
the earth will spin,
the universe will expand.
Writing is forever and always a choice.
Your choice.
--Beth Mend Conny
Life is full of choices.
Easy ones.
Hard ones.
Sometimes we don't want to,
Sometimes we don't feel like it,
Often time there are too many demands on our time.
Too many tasks
Life is overwhelming.
Occasionally there are more fun things to do.
But the author who is passionate about writing
will find the time.
Somehow.
They will grab hold of discipline
and not let go
until that paragraph,
that page,
that chapter is written.
That is the choice they make today.
Blessings!

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Work, Work, Work

What kind of week would we have with this attitude?
Monday: WashDay
Lord, help me wash away all my selfishness and vanity, so I may serve you with perfect humility through the week ahead.

Tuesday: Ironing Day
Dear Lord, help me iron out all the wrinkles of prejudice I have collected through the years so that I may see the beauty in others.

Wednesday: Mending Day
O God, help me mend my ways so I will not set a bad example for others.

Thursday: Cleaning Day
Lord Jesus, help me to dust out all the many faults I have been hiding in the secret corners of my heart.

Friday: Shopping Day
O God, give me the grace to shop wisely so I may purchase eternal happiness for myself and all others in need of love.

Saturday: Cooking Day
Help me, my Savior, to brew a big kettle of brotherly love and serve it with clean, sweet bread of human kindness.

Sunday: The Lord's Day
O God, I have prepared my house for you. Please come into my heart so I may spend the day and the rest of my life in your presence






Quote:
Have great hopes and dare to go all out for them!

Blessings

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Scared . . . Do-less

I read a fellow-writer's comment the other day about her beginnings as a prospective author. She'd sent out to a few publishers her manuscript (our babies!) and gotten rejected.

Now Kim is a gentle soul; writes gentle stories and the rejection hurt--big time. She decided she would write, but never subject herself to rejection again.

I can sympathize because I hate rejection, too. I hate being exposed to criticism. I hate people reading my "stuff" and not getting it. After all, what's wrong with them? Others like it, praise it, want to see it printed. Don't they know what they're doing? Are they all brain-dead?

Maybe, maybe not.

But Kim had a dad who pushed her. He helped her to get self-pubbed at the first, then pushed her on and on to other goals. And now? Well, you might have read some of Kim V Sawyer's gentle Amish stories. They're on bestseller lists.

What have I had?
Confirmation.
Belief.
Encouragement.
Criticism.
Brainstorming sessions with qualified partners.
Critiques from published authors.
An agent -- God sent -- who believes in my writing.
Editors who request!
A deep-seated desire that won't go away, that keeps pushing me, keeps me believing, keeps me hoping, keeps me plotting and writing, sweating and working. Something that pushes me past the hurt and rejection and discouragement and endless waiting.

Cause, you know, some day --soon-- it's going to happen.

Someday--soon.

And what does the title of this blog mean? Sometimes you quit, you're in the land of "do-less." You've quit. You turn your back on it all. But . . .

You don't build a house and stay. You just camp out, rent a room, and then you move on. You're too restless. There's tons more ideas out there waiting on your brain power and finger movement to get it down. To write another book.

"Do-less" is a state we all find ourselves now and then. A state that we visit now and again. It's just not a permanent one.

Thank God.




Quote:
Behold the turtle who only makes progress when he sticks his neck out. -- Cecil Parker



Blessings

Friday, August 17, 2007

One Down. More to Go.


I make lists. That's one way for me to stay sane. I hate chaotic, messy, and jumble, although you might never guess it if you happened to take a peek at my work area!

Lists are life lines to me. When I feel overwhelmed, I begin talking to myself. "Now make a list and check one thing off at a time. Take it easy. Don't look at the whole. Just one thing at a time." And you know what? It works. For me. I've got control. I can do this!

So I make lists. For the last few days I've felt like I've been in quicksand. Slowly sinking with too much to accomplish and getting no where--so I thought.

Yesterday, I took hold. I made a list in my mind and proceeded to work down it. I finished several things in good time, and had one other major item (a proposal) almost done. What a feeling! As if I'd resettled that world on my shoulders somewhere else.

I make lists for:
  • Items I need to accomplish
  • Grocery lists
  • Menus
  • Items to Buy
  • Hubby do-lists
  • Things to change in my novels
  • Critique points I want to change
  • Ideas for new novels
  • Etc.
That proposal? I got it done this morning!

Give me a "strawberry flavored" list anytime. It keeps me sane in my insane world!



Want something easy and nutricious for lunch or even a light dinner? I used this at a luncheon I planned at a recent ladies dinner. They loved it!
(I make my own serving sizes)
Cook boneless, skinless chicken ahead of time. Cool. Debone, and chop into small pieces.

Mix in (to taste) mayonaise, chopped celery, halved grapes (black or red, for color), nuts (I like walnuts). Dash with salt.

Buy fruit choices. (strawberries, blueberries, kiwi, bananas, cantalope, grapes, and whatever else you'd like to use). Clean. Peel as needed, cube as needed.

Place a mound of chicken salad in the middle of individual plates (choose pretty ones!). Surround with fruit. All you need to add our some tasty crackers or crescent rolls for a delicate and wonderful dish! Enjoy!




Quote:
It's hard to fail, but it's worse never to have tried to succeed.


Blessings.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Preparation


My writing conference is coming up next month. I have that familiar upset stomach from too much to do and uncertainty of what the future holds.

What have I done to prepare?

  • I have a novel for a critiquer to work on. Hopefully, the critique will be beneficial. I'll learn something, maybe receive encouragement, and step up a notch on my ladder to becoming an author.
  • I've got my conference fees paid for.
  • I've chosen the editors and agents I want to speak with. Through the year, I've been researching who should be the one I need to network with this year. Hopefully, I've made the right choices.
  • I've followed up on most of the invitations I received last year from editors and an agent. Given a little more time, I will make a second move on these.
  • I've learned of several other places that (in the near future) I'll be submitting to.
  • I've gained a little more confidence in my own writing and my ability, grown a thicker skin (probably not thick enough, but . . .) for all those critical remarks I may receive in the future.
  • I've taken to heart my two critique groups' critiques on my chapters I've submitted to them. They include: an agented critiquer and possibly a soon-to-be-published author (a woman who keeps my feet on the ground), a lady who won a very prestigious contest (who guides me when I err from writer's requirements), and some very good other critiquers who give me solid advice (good brainstormers, ideas infusers, and cheerer-ons).
My immediate goals for the rest of this year?
  • Entice an editor with a fantastic novel.
  • Finish the third novel of my West Virginia romance series. Let editor know of the second one and this third one NOW.
  • Finish the young adult novel (adoption issues). Send this fall.
  • Finish the cozy (mystery) and submit it NOW.
  • Possibly self-publish my children's character trait series (while submitting to children publishers).
  • Begin my second in my suspense series (Tara Layne and Hickory).
Will you be reading my novels anytime soon? My children's series will be ready this fall. We'll see about the rest. More on that later . . .

Two HB Pencils



Sigh. Preparing for conference is work. Writing a novel is work.
I love it!




Ever thought about keeping a journal? Now's the time to start! Here's a few thoughts about keeping a journal for your kitchen:
  • It can keep your family and home running smoothly.
  • Journaling is fun!
  • While working in the kitchen jot down notes about anything and everything: meals, to do list, future plans, lists, or even a creative thought.
  • Record your family's likes and dislikes. Children change. Men get tired of the same thing. Visitors will thank you when you remember what they can or can not eat.
  • Use for your kids' school lunches and menus!
  • Create a list of what foods are in season, prices, and availability.
  • Keep track of your cooking experiments.



Quote:
Out of clutter, find simplicity. From discord, find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity. --Albert Einstein


Blessings

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

The Road to Success


What causes it to happen?



The end of a rainbow.

The end of a rainbow?



A variety of "low value" coins, including an Irish 2p piece and many U.S. pennies.

A lucky penny?



A hand-drawn water well in Chennai, India

A penny cast into a wishing well?



The Pleiades, an open cluster of stars in the constellation of Taurus. NASA photo

The first star seen at night?




A four-leaf clover

Luck?




Or . . .
  • Dreaming, then . . .
  • hard work
  • perseverance
  • more hard work
  • faith--believing in yourself
  • using your abilities, talents, training as much and as well as possible
  • believing that its better to have tried and never succeeded, as to never try and wish you had


What is success?

A big career?
Your company listed on Nasdaq?
Many books published? Listed as a best seller?
Fame?
Fortune? Cars, homes, condos, private schools?



Or, is it . . .

  • the love of a wife/hubby
  • the admiration in your child's eyes
  • the simple word of approval from your boss
  • that bouquet of flowers as a thank you
  • the smile that lights up a face
  • freedom to worship
  • a warm hearth, comfy clothes, those we love about us, a friendly pet, and a song in our heart
  • satisfaction at the end of a day that you've done all you can

Philippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me.

The road to success is not straight.
There is a curve called failure,
A loop called confusion,
Speed bumps called friends,
Red lights called enemies,
Caution lights called family.

You will have flats called jobs.
But, if you have a spare called determination,
An engine called perseverance,
Insurance called faith,
A driver called Jesus,
You will make it to a place called Success.


Ach! That, my friends is success!



June will be here before you know it; and that means lots of weddings. Here's a cute idea (if you're creative!) for the bride (or/and groom):
  • Begin with an ironing board to be the body of the Maid or Mate.
  • Tie an apron with pockets around the middle to make a waist. Fill them with smaller kitchen items, utensils or tools.
  • Attach a plunger on one side of the back of the ironing board as an arm and a toilet bowl brush or feather duster as the other arm.
  • Add a dustpan at the wide end of the ironing board for feet or set the ironing board on top of a vacuum and bind with several elastic cords under the apron (as we did in the photo).
  • Secure a string mop as the head of hair to the back of the ironing board with the mop portion flopped over the top narrow end of the ironing board.
  • Create a face with nylon net scrubbies for the eyes, a small sponge for the nose and a nailbrush for the mouth.

Use your imagination to make this an amusing, but useful, addition to the wedding shower party. Just remember to make the Kitchen Maid or Mate with anything you think the bride or groom will need for their new life together.


Quote:
In sunshine and sorrow, we look for those who will always stand with us. --Lois Wyse


Blessings.


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